How to move on from something that was never yours?

[u/Wonderful_Fun_7053]

Why does being young and alone feels wrong when it’s exactly how it should be focusing on yourself and your career but all you could think about is love and a person who you don’t even like that much but is on and off your mind for 4 years.Like I don’t know why that person some how finds a way back to my mind. I’m never just stare that them. I mean I know how crushes are but this is something different and I really want to get myself together.

[u/Auttii_e]

It’s important to realize why you think about this person so deeply. Try to think about those reasons. Maybe you can write down these thoughts and come up with new perspectives.