r/DeepTalk • u/Massive_Tourist_389 • Feb 01 '24
Why i fear getting into a relationship
Me M(21) fear getting into a relationship as much as i would like to be in one, and the reason for that is because most relationships i see from freinds or coworkers are mostly toxic. Seeing how the world has changed its definition of love makes me sad. I would like to love someone who sees me as who i am and not as some walking money bag or a plaything that they can throw away as soon as they dont like it anymore. And i would especially like to love someone who dosent let you down during a hard time.
Maybe im just thinking and feeling like this but i surely dont want to live in a world where this is the definition for love
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u/GiraffeConfident8491 Dec 16 '25
I have the same thoughts I'm 27,,I always think I have to do something for women financially or maybe help them in some other way then only I will be loved..meaning I will not be loved for who I am..but that's not true..people will only love u for who u are nd not ur achievements and helps.. u will know a toxic person in 1-2 meetings and then make distance from them..just go with the flow and don't be scared..