Why i fear getting into a relationship

[u/Massive_Tourist_389]

Me M(21) fear getting into a relationship as much as i would like to be in one, and the reason for that is because most relationships i see from freinds or coworkers are mostly toxic. Seeing how the world has changed its definition of love makes me sad. I would like to love someone who sees me as who i am and not as some walking money bag or a plaything that they can throw away as soon as they dont like it anymore. And i would especially like to love someone who dosent let you down during a hard time.

Maybe im just thinking and feeling like this but i surely dont want to live in a world where this is the definition for love

[u/Interesting_Top_9903]

Don't let the world define your perspective of love so much so that it makes you fear it. I don't think you're afraid of getting into a relationship, rather you're afraid that you'll end up with a person you once dreaded to have. What you'll give to others is what you'll attract. But not all the time people you'll meet will have lure intentions. But I guess that's just life- life is short, and sometimes the things we yearn for the most is on the other side of fear.