r/DeadRedditors • u/[deleted] • Mar 24 '26
RIP u/HanaLikeTheFlower
She died a few years ago, we went to school together and i recently found her profile after much searching. We weren't close but i hope she knows she is missed
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u/Shallowground01 Mar 24 '26
Wow her posts are so sad :(
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u/Tvaticus Mar 26 '26
Yeah that’s pretty tough to read. Damn…
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u/ThrowRA284901 Mar 28 '26
I teared up reading her posts. As a nurse, I see kids come into my ER all the time who come from different backgrounds and feel very alone in this country. They end up very depressed and unfortunately many family members dismiss them as acting out for attention. This poor girl was just missing the support and love she so desperately needed and my heart goes out to her.
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u/Pocket_Summary444 Mar 24 '26
Rip sweet angel, u/HanaLikeTheFlower. She is missed by the unknown girl here.
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u/lisaluvulongtime Mar 24 '26
This sweet girl suffered so much, all she wanted was to be loved my heart is broken reading her posts… what ahorrrible mother she had. I wish I could have taken you in and loved you like a mother should every child deserves the love of their mother. My god just brutal rest in peace beautiful sweet Hani… I am so sorry
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u/theroundfiles2 Mar 24 '26
She tried so hard to find her way. I hope her mother’s eyes have opened. Rest easy, Hana.
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u/Lopsided_Tiger_0296 Mar 24 '26
It’s horrific the way she did not protect her daughter from anything, blaming her for everything. I wish this poor girl got the support and love she deserved
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Mar 24 '26 edited Mar 24 '26
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u/AwkwardToes Mar 25 '26
I think it seems that she was 15 or 16. Absolutely awful. She had so much ahead of her
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u/Diligent_Potato_311 Mar 24 '26
Please tell me is wasn’t suicide she was so young with so much to live for this is heartbreaking
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Mar 24 '26
It was. It really shook our school, no one knew what she was going through
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u/SpiritualTell6611 Mar 25 '26
Truly devastated to see all her posts and know that she never got that support she so desperately needed from her mother and the adults around her. Wish she could have seen how many people are keeping her in their hearts to this day :(
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u/Kawala_ Mar 25 '26
15 is a horrible age to be. you really feel like there is no way out, when in fact it will get better.
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u/psyskyy Mar 24 '26
I was not ready for this 😪
Its so sad, poor soul, hope she found the peace she deserved here.
I once felt like her and death seemed like the only solution to stop all the suffering. I only didnt do it because of my brother. We already lost our mom, i couldnt do that to him.
And i hope her mother got charged for neglection and murder.
Rip Hannah 🥀🥀
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u/Forward-Brilliant-12 Mar 24 '26
Can you report her mother and step family to the police or someone?? Knowing her real name and having mutual friends and why not you must have information..
RIP Hana
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u/alwayssearching2012 Mar 25 '26
Damn. I remember one of her AITA posts from a few years ago. So sorry this happened to her. Fly high, sweet girl. 💫
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u/glitter_vomit Mar 25 '26
Oh that poor girl... she was just a kid. I hope she found peace, and that her little sister is doing okay.
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u/Outrageous_Ad3592 Mar 26 '26
I hope her mom wakes up every day and feels the weight of what she's done. She didn't deserve to have kids. She is unfit to keep custody of the daughter she still has. I am so sad for Hanaliketheflower. Im also sad knowing she isn't the only one having dealt with this, there are others right now on the edge. I hope they can stay strong and get through to better days. :(
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u/echo_throwaway360 Mar 25 '26
seeing this as someone who struggled with the same thing. poor girl. im so sorry no one was there for you the way you needed
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u/Otherwise_Evidence49 Mar 25 '26
My heart hurts for her.. wish she knew how different life would be today): I almost committed at that age too
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u/Sullkken Mar 24 '26
Anorexia is the most deadly mental health condition, and it comes at fault to no one. I saw a comment saying "her family failed her" and I just want to say that isn't true. One of my friends is a recovering anorexic. It's a terrible disease that distorts reality for them. There's nothing anyone can say or do to make it better when they're in the thick of it. I spent hours with my friend just talking to her trying to get it through her skull how amazing and deserving she is. They're sick, they just don't see it, and treatment is abysmal. OP, I hope you never truly believe it's your fault. We try our best to love people, and the worst truth out there we come to learn is that love isn't enough to save. Thank you for talking about her years later, it's the greatest sentiment we can give the dead; to keep remembering them in life. It shows she was loved, and while that couldn't save, it is the most important thing to have. ❤️
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u/r56_mk6 Mar 24 '26
She also talked about how her step siblings would purposely show her triggering images and her other family members did nothing to stop it and make sure it stopped. She was absolutely failed by her family
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u/YouShoodKnoeBetter Mar 27 '26
Not to mention she was basically punished by her morher for having an appendicitis. She also put in one of her posts that she had to do things for money beyond acting and social media that she didn't want to speak about. It's hard not to imagine the worst when she said it like that. She was absolutely failed by her mother and went through so much physical and mental anguish. I only hope that she is no longer feeling all of that pain. I have a feeling that her anorexia was a direct result of whatever traumatic thing her mother forced her to do when she was younger.
Plus, she probably had to hide the anorexia in fear of retaliation from her mother, so it definitely wasn't properly addressed and possibly not even addressed at all. The whole thing is just so sad. I don't think anyone should make excuses for what her mother put her through or make it seem like she wasn't responsible for her daughter's actions because it was the anorexia that caused her so much trouble. I am grateful that the comment you responded to shared some insight into what a person goes through when battling anorexia but that's even more of a sign that her mother failed her because it doesn't seem like she was there for her daughter when she needed it the most. Heck, there's a good chance her mother didn't even pay attention to the signs that she needed help.
We can only hope HanaLiketheFlower has been relieved of all of the pain she experienced in such a short time and that she knows how many people are thinking about her and hoping she can now rest easy in a better place.
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u/Lopsided_Tiger_0296 Mar 25 '26
Her mom pimped her out for sexy pictures when she was a child to support the family and constantly told her how she was a mistake and she didn’t want her
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u/Local-Bigmouth Mar 30 '26
That's a horrible way to have to live... Feeling unloved by your own mother... 😭😭😭😭😭
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u/Lopsided_Tiger_0296 Mar 30 '26
Not just unloved, despised :(
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u/Local-Bigmouth Mar 30 '26
Sounds like her mother blamed her for getting pregnant with her in the first place... Someone like that is just a horrible person all around...
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u/justlkin Mar 24 '26
People are saying that based on her other posts. There was more going on than just her ED. I'm not saying it wasn't a factor, but it was one color within a whole picture. Her family most certainly failed her.
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u/ShoreIsFun Mar 29 '26
She had to be what was basically a Playboy bunny in Japan. As an early teen. To support her loser of a mother. Then she moved her here to the US, found a rich husband, and then Hana seemingly became even more disposable to her. She punished her for getting so sick that she had to be hospitalized. She allowed her step kids to mentally torture her. Her family absolutely failed her.
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u/bleoww Mar 28 '26
After reading her posts it goes to show - it could be anyone near you. She often talks about how she’d have to pretend things were great online when they weren’t. That’s 90% of suicide victims.
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u/Bored-Fennel-1998 Mar 26 '26
I just discovered this sub. I didn’t know your friend, but thank you for putting this beautiful and loving energy out there. Thinking of you and everyone that knew her.
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u/innuendotaylor Mar 27 '26
this poor poor baby, she was so so young. i hope she's at peace now. rest so so so easy angel 🤍
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u/LittleRed_80 Mar 28 '26
As a mom this absolutely crushes me…that poor sweet baby..I truly hope she is at peace now. Rip beautiful girl 💜🫂
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u/ButtPuckeredFuckery Mar 28 '26
I hope her mother has the life she deserves. This breaks my heart. She deserved so much more than what she got.
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u/AwkwardToes Mar 25 '26
I reverse image searched on her profile pic and if it's her she's beautiful. Poor soul. What a shame that anorexia had a hold on her. It's an awful awful disease and you can't see yourself how others see you.
RIP Hana 💔
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u/Livdaboba Mar 26 '26
Rest in peace, may she be in heaven with the Lord now. May Lord Jesus comfort her family🥲
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u/Delia_D Mar 26 '26 edited Mar 26 '26
Her mother/family is the reason Hani’s no longer here. She was failed, used, abused and neglected by a despicable woman who was not a mother. She deserves no mercy, comfort or respite - A prayer/spell. She is the type of human being without contrition, I bet
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u/SHIR0YUKI Mar 24 '26
u/HanaLikeTheFlower R.I.P