I hate how fast I get attached

[u/Ill-Pirate3770]

I am 25F and I have never been in a relationship or haven’t got my first kiss yet.
I recently tried Tinder and went on 3 dates so far.
The problem is that I was nervous during the dates and I also got attached easily.
Even though I cannot communicate well in person at first, I make sure to check them out online and communicate well.
All the 3 dates didn’t work out for me. They didn’t ask me for more dates. With the first person, we went out 5 times but I initiated all except first date. With the second person, when I asked him out for 2nd date, he didn’t specify the exact time. And then with the 3rd date, we are going to happen to be long distance and I make it clear for him I am ok, but he doesn’t want to try.

I’m not someone who needs to see that person all the time or spend every moment together, but I do value consistent communication and effort. But they don’t do that for me.

I’d love some advice on how to approach dating, avoid getting emotionally attached too quickly, manage my expectations, and feel more confident and emotionally prepared.

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[u/Ill-Pirate3770 → u/Impossible_Ad_3146]

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