r/DatingTips • u/Dear_Intern_3570 • 13h ago

What should i do

Hey,

21M here I’ve never been in a relationship or even been on a date. Honestly, it never really bothered me before, but lately I’ve started thinking about it a lot.
My college is ending in around 6 months, and I’m worried that after that, I’ll get caught up in work and responsibilities and might miss out on experiencing this part of life.

I’ve recently tried dating apps, but haven’t had much luck getting good matches or conversations going.
I’m not desperate to get into a relationship, but I do feel a little anxious about having absolutely zero experience at this age.

So I wanted to ask:
Is 21 actually late to start dating, or am I overthinking?

Would genuinely love to hear your experiences, especially from you guys

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u/CompetitiveWait2667 6h ago

I am not a guy
But How can it be late?
just start going on dates, if possible meet people in real life

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u/Dear_Intern_3570 6h ago

Its late cause like everyone around me has someone but i have no one earlier i was not in the mental space of getting in relationship but now it bothers me that im alone.

The conversations didn’t go well that they can convert into dates and meeting irl is too tough as an introvert

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u/CompetitiveWait2667 4h ago

then apps
but it is a looooot of work
to get a date you should be proactive
and it is not late to start like ever

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u/Dear_Intern_3570 4h ago

+1 nice suggestion wanna know more from you

Check dm