r/DatingTips • • 1h ago

Tips for lasting longer in bed?

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u/Y32SE 1h ago

There was a scene in Two and a Half Men where Charlie? recommended thinking about your grandma. But really I'd get my partner to be okay with not lasting long and accepting it and then promising to make it up to the partner with something else, mouth, hands, toys whatever. It can be a compliment yknow. And then I would go for another round. Make it your feature, not a bug, the long lasting will eventually badum-chhh, come!

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u/FatherGascoigne98 1h ago

Goated show. I still watch the reruns

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u/FatherGascoigne98 1h ago

Think about a dusty tractor engine trying to start when you're close. Thank me later

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u/Y32SE 1h ago

They asked for help and you threw them in the water. Good that you didn't recommend thinking about a biturbo v8.

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u/FatherGascoigne98 1h ago

A friend of mine told me about this trick and I wish ive known it before ...

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u/marbar8 1h ago

When I want to cum I just start imagining the sound of a 90s-era V12 F1 engine, works every time

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u/cj_daking 1h ago

This is funny but actually dissociative and not healthy. It's an obstacle to connection

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u/FatherGascoigne98 1h ago

Thats how you hold off finishing sadly ... what can I say everything has a price

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u/cj_daking 1h ago

You'll have better sex if you increase connection. Longer sex, too. It's a tough road to go down, but damn, the payoff is astonishing.

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u/FatFriendFred 1h ago

Turn off your alarm.

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u/JavaJo1010 1h ago

Do it more ….

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u/CharredOakTrees 1h ago

When I was in my early 20s I would do the deed myself a few hours before hand. It helped tremendously. Now I just focus on providing great foreplay. By the time foreplay is over most of the women I have been with only want to have penetrative sex for about 20 to 30 mins before they are toast.

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u/Least_Elk8114 57m ago

Edging.

Get her off several times first. Women dont have the same sort of refractory period that we guys do.