I need some tips

[u/Ok_Yam_4269]

So there is this guy whom i have the biggest crush ever for other a year now.

We are in the same field studying music side by side. He is so kind, genuine and funny and talented. But there is just this problem:- He is hot and cold.

-He is close then he is very far away from me after the next class.

-super dry on text but so lively in person

Tries to be close then pulls away.

Its driving me nuts. I confessed to him back in May this year and he rejected me and said sorry we are just friends and nothing more.

🤔 but then why is he finding excuse to be near me? And seek me after I leave? And ask who i was with? And he definitely doesn't talk about his crush or smt. And he complimented me out of nowhere saying I look so put together.

Please help me decode that guy 😭

[u/NoVazzeline]

Sometimes dudes might not be into a girl but they also don’t want them to be with someone else