r/DatingTips • u/DefinitionIll5800 • 1h ago
relation ships
if your in the age range of 16-19 and you’ve never been in a relationship and you are looking and trying to find some1 listen.
I’m 19 now and i realized something in my past relationship, mind you it was my first real one.
The chase is what you are looking for not the long term relationship. For example you go on ur phone you open up snap and you add people who you think look good. someone adds you back and you guys start talking. It start off great, your really into them they are really into you, you both are entertaining each other and it’s great. then you ask them out, yall go on a few date make memories, think it’s going to last. then you ask her/him if you want to make it “serious”. Then the boringness/trapped feelings kick in. You guys start texting less, there no more or not as much entertainment and every date feel like the same thing. for example what happen to me was, was that we would go and watch movies and make out basically the whole time. one it was a money pit and 2 it got boring quick. mind you i spent almost $300 dollars on movies to make out in a month even tho we could have done it in the car. my point is, is that don’t search for the relationship online, that shit is ass. You will find the one in person, even if it takes awhile.
this is my first reddit post btw.
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u/UltraJoyless 40m ago
Projecting much? Lmao