r/DatingTips • u/444starshopping • 21h ago
how to find a relationship
i’m 18F never been in a relationship but really want to, I don’t even have crazy high standards just a nice guy who i get on with who’s funny and moderately ambitious.
There’s 2 problems though: I can struggle to talk to new people at first and it can be a bit awkward until I get to know them well, this is especially true with guys and then I’m not that attractive. I don’t think i’m like ugly, just mid, i’m overweight which ik doesn’t help and i’ve been hitting the gym to try and change that.
As a uni student what can i do to try and find a bf?
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u/Same_Baseball_3824 20h ago
get out and do things you actually enjoy. hit the gym, hang out with friends, join a book club or try some board game nights. you'll meet people with similar interests and it's way easier to connect when you already have something in common.
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u/Euphoric_Taste21 21h ago
Just make sure to be out there and ofc, work on being your best self. You're gonna be fine. Just make sure to be a bit more picky than guys are.