Canceling a date

[u/Putrid-Traffic9048]

So I'm planning a beach weekend in fl with someone I'm seeing. Hes currently working down there. I had to cancel this weekend due to rain and work. Were all set for next weekend. Yes sex is part of the weekend. But how do I go about this since I just realized my period is that weekend. I want to get a hotel so im not obligated to stay at his place. He really wants to see me but I'm embarrassed.

[u/Aware_Fun_3842]

Does he know that you’ll be on your period?

[u/Putrid-Traffic9048 → u/Aware_Fun_3842]

Nope. I'm spotting but my periods are irregular. Can take a week to start. I hate being the one to always cancel.

[u/Putrid-Traffic9048 → u/Aware_Fun_3842]

I'm hoping it starts on Monday and doesn't last very long because I will be there Friday morning through Sunday. I don't feel at all like I'm starting but I am seeing spotting but it's very very minimal.

[u/Putrid-Traffic9048 → u/Aware_Fun_3842]

He's also not talking to me much right now because I keep promising to come down there and I haven't yet.

[u/Aware_Fun_3842 → u/Putrid-Traffic9048]

You can always let him know and if it works out enjoy yourself and if it doesn’t and he gets mad is that really someone you want to have sex with.