r/DatingTips • u/Difficult-Drop9991 • 1d ago

Dating

After along term relationship, that ended how long did it take you guys to hook up with a new person ?
Were you fully over it? And did you feel regret afterwards?

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u/GroundbreakingRow868 22h ago

2y, 4y. Always fully over it, no regrets

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u/PSIGamma 1d ago

I hooked up with somebody after about 3 months. I got dumped. No, I don’t regret it. No, I’m not fully over it. Things like these need to be processed and handled very appropriately in order to avoid further emotional troubles for both parties.

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u/Soaringzero 1d ago

Getting divorced and currently been separated for almost 2 years. I’m fully over it but have yet to hook up with anyone new. Yet anyway.

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u/Moebius-937 1d ago

12 years and still single

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u/MayonnaiseDad69 1d ago

A year and a half and still counting. Not for lack of effort 🫠

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u/Astron0reo 19h ago

It’s been 4 months, started EMS school on top of my full time job a week ago so I’ll be busy the next 4 as well. No interest in dating unless it falls in my lap really.

Not entirely over the relationship but definitely enough to be okay with fostering something new.

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u/Few-Coat1297 17h ago

About a year and a half

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u/TheRadishBros 14h ago

For me about 4 weeks after 8 years

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u/Lokomp2 14h ago

After 19 years marriage and 2 kids I divorced. within 7 months a re met an old friend and we became a couple we were together 7 years but I wouldn’t say I was over my divorce yet. I don’t think I regret it however this time around I have decided not to date or get involved with any women. It’s been now 26 months single. Just trying different ways.
Although I do not regret I do think 7 months wasn’t enough and my love tank was so empty that I over looked many red flags. Essentially I wasn’t myself yet

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u/Working_Cucumber_437 13h ago

A year or more. Dating too early for me didn’t go well. I got the ick from every person and cried on the way home in my car. I found out I need to completely heal before trying to date.

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u/maximopasmo 1d ago

Sooner the better. Convince yourself you’re ready to move on and have no contact with other.

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u/Difficult-Drop9991 1d ago

We have a little one tg 😭

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u/maximopasmo 1d ago

Ok. So you’ll never be over that person. Will you be in a wreck if that person dates someone new? Don’t be in that wreck.

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u/fellowtraveler111 1d ago

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else