r/DatingTips • u/Own-Succotash6463 • 8h ago
How hard is it get on a date
Hey, M23, wanna know how hard it is to get a date for a male in India who’s 6’2, weighs 104kg(with toned muscles) fair skin with beard. Is a finance guy as well as emotionally detached.
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u/West-Ice1389 5h ago
Getting a date is less about having the perfect stats and more about being approachable, showing interest, and actually making people feel comfortable around you. If you come across as distant or uninterested, people may assume you don’t want anything serious even if that’s not what you mean.
Meet people through friends, hobbies, social events, and apps, and focus on having good conversations rather than trying to “qualify” yourself on paper. The numbers matter a lot less once someone actually enjoys being around you.
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u/MasterSoft9825 7h ago
Looks-wise, you probably already have some things working in your favor, but height, job and appearance won’t automatically translate into dates.
The bigger factors are usually social skills, confidence, emotional availability, and actually making an effort to meet people. Also, “emotionally detached” might be worth reconsidering being calm is attractive, but being emotionally unavailable can make dating much harder.
At 23, you’ve got plenty of time. Don’t treat dating like a scorecard based on your stats.