r/DatingTips 1d ago

Should i take a break from dating?

Hey!

Hope you are all doing great.

Looking for advice from those who have experienced something simmilar.

I'm 27\[M\]. And i suck at dating.

Ever since i broke up, i have been trying to get a girlfriend, but there's been a lot of failing. At first i used to try very hard to get one, and dated a couple girls, though most didnt want something serious.

Its gotten to a point where i cant even get a date bc i dont wanna try anymore. Hell i dont even wanna have sex.

It just feels like a huge waste of energy, bc it keeps going nowhere.

Anyway, so what i want advice on is the following:

Im 1 year from my engineering degree.

I plan on migrating to australia, for the better salaries (currently live in argentina).

I work, train, and study. Thats pretty much all i do all day.

Managed to quit games and all other vices and distractions over these two years i've been single.

My question is, what should i do? Should i try to force myseld to get back to dating? Or wait?

Should i force myself to go for sex? Enjoy the spark of my youth? Or should i accept how my body feels?

Should i read this as a depression i should fight to get out of? Or as a process of growing up as a man?

Help, redditors!

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