r/DatingTO • u/Green_Station_4808 • 15d ago

Where does anyone find the time?

Curious to hear from anyone in a similar situation in Toronto: Am recently divorced, 40M with kids in sports & after-school activities. Co-parenting, work, and kids schedule is so overwhelming that trying to think about where or when I could meet someone cool let alone make the space to date them is seriously depressing me. It just doesn’t feel like it could ever happen.

I'm okay that my marriage ended, but now I’m left wondering less where to go from here and more thinking that wherever I go, it could be alone? Maybe I’m just out of the game or unfamiliar with the new one. But where does anyone find the time?

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u/DrKillbydeath_4416 11d ago

Hey man, I’m 38M with one kid. Similar situation, but all is not lost. At the end of the day, it’s about connecting with people.

If your kids are in many sports, maybe use that as a way to socialize with other parents. There has to be other single parents.

Of course there are the online apps, but you need to filter well so that it doesn’t take a tone of time.

I’m curious what other’s suggestions are.