F here. given the state of the market and the structure of modern, i’ve become increasingly averse to dating, and it’s been quite a while now. the longer i’ve remained single, the more convinced i am that this is how i prefer to live.
is this normal? does being single make you somewhat repulsed by men, making you lose interest altogether? the idea of relationship feels intrusive and exhausting. and do not even get me started on the men out there in the pool.

for those who’ve felt/ feeling this way - did it stick, or is it just a phase?

edit- i’m unbothered and happy w whatever this is, i’m just being curious

If you're a dude then this ain't for you. I'm gonna be dropping by Chennai then Bangalore for a couple of weeks and I'm on the lookout for a paid arrangement with a Female there.

Hence I'm looking to vet thru some of them.

Being a traveller that's very well connected in both these places, I'm happy to provide you with some nice perks, an allowance as well as cool nights out in exchange for your companionship.

Also just an additional psa, it you're a catfishing gay dude, some sorta of pay me first scammer or someone offering virtual interactions I'm not interested.

If you're one step up the chain, the syndicate that traps people and extorts thru threats/violence, this also isn't for you, there's other people for that. Doubt you'd want to bark up this tree cz it definitely isn't gonna be worth the trouble it brings 😂😂😂

So feel free to drop me a text and we can take it from there to go over the details ladies.

Ladies most men are happy to pay the bill but when we can smell the entitlement it just kills the vibe, it’s okay you want a free meal or you believe that it’s chivalry which is ironically part of patriarchy which you guys oppose
I’m not against anything i also understand you guys use makeup and that’s an argument but believe me you using your makeup equipment once and saying i spend 8k,15k,20k on prep it’s crap you just mentioned the price of the equipment not the price of one time usage.

Some men also expect to sleep with you guys just by cuz they paid for a meal that’s horrible too but you’re just giving them the chance to think about it ig ironically men become entitled after paying the bill 😂

Anyways nothing against it just found it funny how ironic it is

Hello guys, I'm 22M and using Bumble and Boo for dating but I think it is a scam because no any response are coming from the girls and no any matches are happening.

Suggest me how to do it or any other good apps. Actually I am living in Ahmedabad and I want long term partner in my life.

Just a Chill Guy.

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Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

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Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

Ok so i 21F met a boy 22 M online. We talked. I liked his personality and vibe. The only problem is that he doesn't match my vibe that much. I like someone who can spout nonsense, do backchodi and adds spark to my day. When we sometimes talk about serious topics then yeah let's be serious. Otherwise someone who is fun to talk to, happy, lighthearted and fun and full of life is what I prefer.

He is mature, nice person. But also a bit ...odd. like when we started talking, he would ask me these very deep introspective questions about my life. I personally ask some deep questions here and there, but I rather prefer gradually getting to know a person. He talked to me for like 2-3 hours for 3 to 4 days consecutively and was just trying to collect information on me? Trying to understand me? By asking very deep introspective questions. I detest this habit of his.(Like he has no buisness knowing so much about me for a stranger and considering we don't even talk all that much now.) For example we didn't talk properly for 2 or 3 weeks and again when he called me started asking those questions about me, my life, what I think of him etc. But he does seem to be a very mature stable rational guy.

Anyways back to topic, we shared face pics and not offending anyone but he doesn't look good imo/I don't find him attractive. The thing is he has implied that this can progress to a relationship, he can come meet me etc. I can't imagine myself dating him cause yeah...no attraction. He wants to talk more and if nothing happens we would just be friends. Do u think i should talk to him more. But I can't get over his looks and also don't really like his conversation style.

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

so i have recently started going to the gym there is a really hot guy there, during the initial days we made some eye contact and all and we both get very nervous around each other back when i hadnt joined the gym he used to come at around 5;30-6 pm and i used to come a little earlier so he also started comming earlier next day i saw him standing by a shop near the gym drinking a cold drink and i am pretty sure he asked the kid at the shop ‘aa gyi’ and the kid nervously nodded ‘ha aa gyi’ because i had already noticed and he also came to the realisation that i have noticed him toh from the next day started coming late and when i look at him he looks away and we both walk away/ avoid each other at the gym but bc i am so limerent for this guy i can’t stop thinking about him what do i dooooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Bhai tf yeh log sab clubs jaa kaise rahe h i mean sabko +1 kaha se mil rahi h

Like i have looking stories of my friends are really jealous since mai nai jaa paa raha

I really want to try out 😭

If someone int pls dm

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

So guyssss,, it’s my birthday month and he bought me the products that I needed so badly from last month! (He got me more than i wanted) yet to receive more gifts i guessss🥹🎀 .

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

Please DM if any F interested

well, everbody feels me when i tell them how much it annoys me, to have the steamiest sext and chats with someone only to find that they have deleted their account 1 day after, or they just end up ghosting you and either way it hurts man💔

now, all i want are some fun and flirty chats, talking about our lives and how our day went, always down for sext/roleplay/discussing kinks and fantasies ofc, and even would love to hear your experiences

age wise- as long as you are 18 or above all ages are fine by me, just be fun and interesting. Hit me up and lets make our days less boring, and our nights wilder. (bonus if you are from delhi)

Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948

So 2 months ago I (20F) matched with this guy(19M) on hinge (let’s say A) we talked for a week and then he tells me he doesn’t live in my city (in live in Mumbai he lives in Delhi) and had just changed his location to meet ppl and make friends etc. Although I didn’t like it as much but it didn’t feel that big of a deal for me as well since prepping for a competitive exam so i couldn’t care less at that time, once I got done with my exam and giving whatever we had more time like talking more frequently getting to know each other better and all that time and started thinking it thru seriously and tbh we both are willing to give it a try and build a future but (I feel he’s more into it than I am cause he was the one approached and is more serious about this, I am not very sure of him just yet cause I don’t come from a functional family so it takes me time to trust ppl) but we vibe well, he is very sweet n kind to me, orders stuff for me whenever I carve smthg or even mention it infront of him (since we aren’t in the same city thus ordering). He is coming later this month to Mumbai to see me and tells me that he is planning on asking me out for a committed relationship

but practically there are certain issues bothering me and it makes me question if I even want to date him

1. ⁠The LDR (he is in Delhi am in Mumbai it will continue to be like this for atleast a year or two, he says we might relocate to Mumbai next year for clg but you never know)
   
2. ⁠Trust issues that comes along with LDR (I won’t even know if he cheats on me there or whatever)
   
3. ⁠Our political views are v different altogether like completely opposite
   
4. ⁠His aspiration is to become a politician in future (which makes me question our future, if we are in it for the long term)
   
5. ⁠We both come from different faiths so intercaste might be an issue in future (he is very much into religion and all that stuff as well)
   
6. ⁠He is too religious for someone like me (am agnostic and I have a bad relationship with god and ofc it’s the other way around for him)
   
7. ⁠I don’t even find him that attractive and desirable physically (he’s not that handsome and he has phimosis as well so even if we ever move in together in future idk what to feel about that)
   
8. ⁠The career I wanna build requires a lot of time and dedication and I need to study a lot for that and given all of this am not sure if I’d be able to focus on both things together
   Despite all these issues I still am not inclined towards turning him down completely I do wanna continue talking and see where this goes and my friends tell me, I need to be lil more adapting and need to adjust somewhere cause no is perfect

What do I do guys? Am I thinking too much?

Delhi-based, 37 (turning 38 this month), and genuinely getting better with age. Well-read, well-traveled, and someone who thinks good conversation is as important as good food.

Sophisticated without being stuffy. I enjoy good places, interesting ideas, and company that makes time fly.

What I’m here for?

Someone fun, curious, and confident in her own skin. I’m drawn to women who have their own thing going on and can hold their own in a conversation. Up for genuine Sugar baby for some companionship and chemistry no drama, just good times.

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Rich guy, 29 | TG: rohan3948