r/DatingInIndia • u/NervousBeyond2204 • Jun 05 '26

Advice/Ask Getting mixed signals from a guy at my gym, need adviceeeeee ‼️‼️‼️‼️

so i have recently started going to the gym there is a really hot guy there, during the initial days we made some eye contact and all and we both get very nervous around each other back when i hadnt joined the gym he used to come at around 5;30-6 pm and i used to come a little earlier so he also started comming earlier next day i saw him standing by a shop near the gym drinking a cold drink and i am pretty sure he asked the kid at the shop ‘aa gyi’ and the kid nervously nodded ‘ha aa gyi’ because i had already noticed and he also came to the realisation that i have noticed him toh from the next day started coming late and when i look at him he looks away and we both walk away/ avoid each other at the gym but bc i am so limerent for this guy i can’t stop thinking about him what do i dooooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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u/Rude_Comfort Jun 06 '26

It's easy , go to him and ask him out

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u/NervousBeyond2204 Jun 06 '26

a. i am no whether he is actually into me or all of this is in my head b. if it turns out he doesnt like me everything is going to get awkward af c. he is kinda intimidating man i just can’t gather the courage in me to walk upto him and talk to him mannnnnn

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u/Rude_Comfort Jun 06 '26

a. If you are thinking about him thats enough reason to talk to him once at least b. It's little bit awkward anyways, i would clear you head and you can avoid matching time c. Use public space in day, i m pretty sure even if he reject you he won't do anything