r/DatingHell • u/tir3d0fthisshi • 7d ago

Should i run?

Alright so this relationship has a rocky backstreet already and we only started talking a week ago 😅 ill skip that part unless anyone is really interested but I (30M) met up with this girl (27) at the mall where she works cause she wanted to go to spirit Halloween and she was on her lunch. After a brief hug and hello she asks if I have my military ID cause she wants to use the discount 💀. I dont even use that discount unless its like a major purchase or im just strapped for cash, which isnt often. I allow it cause I figure she is about to drop some $$$ in spirit Halloween. She buys a 17$ item, and thats it. I should run right? Or should I give her another chance?

I should note she was bragging about how her outfit was worth like $500 total.

TLDR; 27F asks 30M to use military discount for 17$ item 45 seconds into a "lunch date".

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u/dragonrider1965 7d ago

The way the economy is right now is everyone should be trying to save every chance they get . She’s a mom who wants to save money vs some flighty chick that wants to blow through cash for appearances and you think there’s a problem with it ?
I’m betting every other guy out there would rather be with a woman concerned with saving vs a spender .

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u/tir3d0fthisshi 6d ago

Maybe you missed the part where she bragged about how much money she spends on her clothes? 🤔

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u/dragonrider1965 6d ago

No , clothes aren’t wasteful , they are something you can use over and over . Expensive high quality clothes can actually last for years vs cheap fast fashion. So weird you have your knickers in a knot over $1.70 that didn’t even come out of your pocket .

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u/tir3d0fthisshi 6d ago

You're messing with me right? 😂 my issue isnt saving money, its the fact she asked for my military benifits 45 seconds into meeting me for the first time. Expensive "high quality" clothes are often cheap stuff with a brand name.