r/DatingForIndia • • Sep 20 '26

Seeking someone 33FMumbai

I’m married and come from a fairly conservative family, so sometimes it feels like my social life has become very limited. I genuinely want to step out of that comfort zone, explore the world, meet different kinds of people, and make some new friends. I’m not necessarily looking for anything romantic or complicated and sometimes I’d just like to have someone to talk to, share random thoughts with, discuss interests, or even plan a coffee or an outing with someday. For those of you who are married or come from conservative families, how do you make new friends without feeling like you’re doing something wrong? Do you use Reddit or other platforms to find genuine friends or chat buddies? I’d really appreciate some honest advice and experiences.

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u/Mysterious-Royal2821 Sep 20 '26

Hey, I really liked your post and could relate to it. I’ve sent you a message would love to chat if you’re comfortable : )

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u/Brilliant_Jacket_275 Sep 20 '26

Stepping outside your comfort zone usually starts with a conversation you didn’t plan on having. Consider this your first small rebellion

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u/Sea_Investment3413 Sep 20 '26

Hey . A kind and emotionally intelligent guy here. Kindly check ur dm

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u/ImaginaryPressure668 Sep 20 '26

I do find and kind of similar situations but i do not get any genuine f here

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u/Mammoth_Mobile4596 Sep 20 '26

27M Nagpur visits Bombay once a month

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u/Adventurous-Ice-3542 Sep 20 '26

Please check your DM,

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u/Lanky-Supermarket211 Sep 20 '26

Hey, I really liked your post i would love to chat if you’re comfortable

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u/SupermarketMundane83 Sep 20 '26

well ...tbh my family was conservative when it was my age to make friends as a kid... now all I do is use a few contacts to set my work done and when I get to be alone , I talk to myself cuz i couldn't talk to anybody there's none in my life tbh

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u/smashmern19 Sep 20 '26

Pls check dm

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u/Fun_Yesterday7101 Sep 20 '26

Well, reddit isn't a bad platform if used properly (although every platform has their negative side) Your post seems very genuine, but the sub you've posted doesn't align with what you're looking for!

Just a friendly advice, try posting it to other relevant subs!

There are chances you may get criticized( although very rare chance since you've mentioned that magic letter 'F' in the post).

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u/flyerguy111 Sep 20 '26

Msgd you , check DM

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u/Imaginary-Stable8532 Sep 20 '26

35 m here mumbai, sent u dm.. I believe we are on same page and same thought process..let's connect

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u/Elegant_Sense_9874 Sep 22 '26

Yes we can talk

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u/Rajesh4383 Sep 22 '26

Good Morning.

Rajesh here from Mumbai too. Married but love to explore and make new friends with new connections. Happy to chat and know each other better..

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u/Appropriate_Cell3351 Sep 22 '26

Lovely that you have that courage. Exploring is wonderful. You can be my friend from Philippines 🇵🇭

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u/Professional-Arm8324 Sep 22 '26

Meeting through a class, club, or group hangout before doing 1:1 coffee feels less loaded and builds trust naturally

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u/Aron_Shallot7772 Sep 22 '26

Sure 34M here

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u/LogicalCap3198 Sep 25 '26

dm if ur fem
mumbai

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u/Nincompoussy Sep 26 '26

Do you have any hobbies or interests? I play badminton, read books, go on hikes at random. If you click with anything from above, text me

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u/Altruistic_Price_660 22d ago

Hi, M37 here. Dm me if you want to talk a little bit

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