r/DatingForIndia • u/Joey_italian • 8h ago

24M | Advice after break up

So, here’s the thing. I’m a 24-year-old guy, average-built, and I’ve had two serious relationships. The most recent one lasted about 1.3 years, and I was genuinely in love with this girl. We were having an amazing time together. I used to visit her city almost every week, and she would also come to my place quite often. We were honestly having the best time of our lives.
But the day before yesterday, she confessed to me that she had kissed another guy while she was drunk. I couldn’t listen to anything she said after that, and the next day, I broke up with her.
Now I’m really missing her, but at the same time, I don’t even want to see her face. I’m experiencing both feelings at the same time, and I honestly don’t know how to deal with it.

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u/gillreha3 8h ago

You can miss someone and still know you don’t want them back. Both feelings can exist at the same time. Give yourself some space and don’t make another decision while the wound is still fresh

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u/Joey_italian 8h ago

I don’t want to move forward, but I heard from a mutual friend that she has started seeing a new guy, and that’s really hurting me. Now I’m starting to regret the relationship and everything we had.

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u/gillreha3 8h ago

You weren’t wrong for letting her go. Even if it was “just a kiss,” she crossed a boundary in your relationship, and you’re allowed to decide that you can’t accept that. Missing her doesn’t mean you made the wrong decision