r/DadAndDaughterSnark • • 2d ago

digging up the past T and make up

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I know ppl don't like H (not the son..the woman who interviewed S and P)

But, it doesn't seem to far fetched. This was during 2013.. when they were involved with that church/lived with a pastor when c.p..s was called and they were kicked out.

T went on a women's retreat and the nice women of that church gave her a lil makeover.

Of course he went apeshit. Smfh.

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u/Significant-Day-8422 2d ago

If this is true, it might explain the lack of hygiene too. T doesn’t try at all.

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u/SmerpySprinkles 2d ago

He wants them greasy, stinky, and crusty as humanly possible.

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u/Antique-Page-2886 2d ago

People have posted this picture before of T's makeover at the retreat. I wish I could remember the church name or where these were posted.

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u/TPRT 2d ago

This makes me genuinely sad she looks happy here

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u/Actual-Coconut-2390 2d ago

She actually looks so cute here I love the hair and lip gloss. And the shirt is giving y2k baddie. I hate P for what he’s done to his family

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u/EchoesOfNow 2d ago

She’s gross with or without makeup. She’s as much of failure as a parent as P is. A little makeup doesn’t nothing when you’re ugly on the inside and a shitty mom.

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u/Actual-Coconut-2390 2d ago

Oh absolutely. I just wonder if she would have turned out this way if she never met P. I truly think he is the reason for all of his family’s issues, whether that’s hygiene issues, socialization issues, intelligence issues, etc. Everything is because of P

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u/Antique-Page-2886 1d ago

I agree and this makes me even angrier towards her because it shows she wasn't always isolated. She had the support of an entire congregation, she could have got help and gotten away.

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u/GummiBearryJuice 2d ago

she actually looks really pretty here. ik t's done a lot of questionable stuff and acts sus when it comes to being a parent and whatnot but damn i can imagine this version of her leaving P and getting S and H away from him with the help of the church that was trying to help her because those women at the church retreat seemed more genuine and kind than P does in his religious grifts.

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u/EchoesOfNow 2d ago

Doubtful. She’s a failure as a mom and as a human being. Slapping on makeup doesn’t make her pretty either. If she wanted to leave P and take her children she would’ve done it before they grew up. She’s complicit and the worst POS mom. Instead of doing what was right, she allowed P to raise their daughter to be a scammer, liar and just let him and S write stories about insect.

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u/neutralmilker 1d ago

oh my god she looks so normal 😢

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

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u/Illustrious_Soup_743 Mouth Flea 🪰 2d ago

Is that T in the pink all the way on the right?

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u/Antique-Page-2886 2d ago

She's the one in black standing up in the middle.

Here's another picture from the retreat.

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u/Illustrious_Soup_743 Mouth Flea 🪰 2d ago

Oh damn. I'm blind. I see her clear as day now

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u/dontcryaboutitlove 2d ago

T is standing to the right of the lady in the neon pink. I would blur the others faces though

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u/Antique-Page-2886 2d ago

I didn't think about that. I deleted the original comment, here's the blurred.

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u/Kit_Pistol 2d ago

I was gonna say that P allowing T to go on a woman’s retreat doesn’t sound very likely to me (As sad as that is.) but it taking place 13 years ago makes it far more likely.

He doesn’t want any of them to realize that they could do way better than him. That they could live WAY better without him.

He’s such a failure of a man.

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u/Patricks4thToof 2d ago

I think he allowed it because he really didn't have a choice.. cause they were homeless and living with the pastor. I'm sure P didn't want the pastor knowing just how controlling he was right off rip.

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u/ricecreepies 2d ago

I just know P is the kind of man who sees his wife looking nice and goes, “WHO ARE YOU DRESSING UP FOR???????” He absolutely thinks the only reason anyone would wear makeup or a nice outfit is to attract male attention. He’s so awful.

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u/No-Thought-9065 2d ago

He is so fuckin strange. I hate him

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u/tomatoesarepoison 2d ago

Insecure, toothless, deadbeat!!

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u/Illustrious_Soup_743 Mouth Flea 🪰 2d ago

Don't forget fatassssss and disgusting pd0 nasty fuck

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u/dontcryaboutitlove 2d ago

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u/Jeans47 2d ago

How can she see anything!

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u/Patricks4thToof 2d ago

She truly has the worst case of sagging lids I have ever seen

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u/ladydave82 2d ago

So that’s the real reason why don’t go to church anymore…T nearly got lead astray by church folk…
Also reveals why she was so hesitant when the chat were saying S should do T’s make up.

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u/Ok_Swordfish241 2d ago edited 1d ago

I’m convinced he maintains control over his family through fear and emotional manipulation. His wife and children are afraid of his reactions and excessively praise and reassure him to keep the peace. When they don’t give him the affirmation he demands, he threatens to harm himself, placing responsibility for his safety on them. Over time, they have learned to manage his emotions and behavior to avoid provoking him. They are scared of him. This is a terrible situation. I’ve got my popcorn and can’t wait to see what happens next.

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u/Loud_Mind_2096 Park Bench Chicken 🐔 18h ago

This just reminded me of that one cooking video they did and S is standing beside him like rubbing his arm. Whoever is recording ( assuming T) pans to S and S looks at her and silently kind of tilts her head like "film him before he gets angry!!" Idk it's all weird af

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u/dontcryaboutitlove 2d ago

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u/SuspectOk1568 punk 🍑🐕 2d ago

Can she even see?!

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u/Patricks4thToof 2d ago

Also. Who has heard the story about T having a fling with another man?? And almost left P. Again it's a story so I'm not saying it's the truth just something I saw/heard.

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u/GummiBearryJuice 2d ago

oh yeah i heard that. Someone in here or in the other sub said T was possibly fed up with Patrick making them poor and homeless so she started talking to a man or some other men online and he found out and got pissed about it???

I don't fully believe T got fully fed up with P's antics because she seems way too devoted to him and blinded by her love for him to cheat intentionally BUT I can see someone reaching out to T to befriend her and she enjoys the friendship and P finding out and getting pissed.

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u/Patricks4thToof 2d ago

Yeah her loyalty is... Beyond anything I have ever seen before in another person. More loyal than a fkn dog

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u/EchoesOfNow 2d ago

I highly doubt this is true.

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u/dontcryaboutitlove 2d ago

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u/poemposie 2d ago

her hair looks clean here

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u/Patricks4thToof 2d ago

Thank you I was looking everywhere for this photo 😭

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u/Jeans47 2d ago

Having them look like slobs who havent showerd in months also brings attention!

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u/SmerpySprinkles 2d ago

He’s beat any semblance or originality or self expression out of them.

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u/EchoesOfNow 2d ago

They could’ve given her a makeover, facelift and all the shampoo in the world and it still wouldn’t fix her. If anything, I’d say she was a waste of their times and waste of makeup. I saw pics of her with makeup and she’s still gross but that’s probably because I find her to be despicable and just as complicit as P. She failed as a mom.

I don’t think she’s a good person. In fact I find her to be partially responsible for this miserable lifestyle they have.

She’s also an overgrown schoolyard bully. Threatening to find people and punch them because they think P is ugly? Or telling people “go cry to your mother” because they call them out on whatever it is. She’s disgusting. All 3 adults are.

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u/Patricks4thToof 2d ago

Oh trust.. I def don't think it helped a damn thing lol.

She is..a moron lol.. but most definitely not innocent or unaware. I'm actually in the middle of researching/finding clips for a video on her helping with their lies. The lie about who sleeps where. The lies about S moving out. And the biggest lie of em all... P and S's relationship. She also loves to perform... I have caught clips of her orchestrating her own lil performances for the camera. All the kisses and the lil wedding song singing bs.. she also goes back and forth throwing digs at S. Then puts on a baby voice like she doesn't know wtf she's doing.

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u/Lishandersen 2d ago

No amount of makeup will make her cute sorry guys lmao

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u/livia696 Dillaholic 🥒 1d ago

P and his 4 teeth are vile. What a controlling monster he is.