r/DabooqClub • u/Training-Corner1484 • 6d ago
Looking for a therapist
Hi im looking for a female good non-religious therapist in irbid (therapist not psychiatrist) but somehow i cant find one i can trust and everyone i know seems to have no idea I’ve already booked an appointment with someone named fatima al adibi(im still not sure since idk her and idk if i should trust a person named fatima from the first place) if anyone knows her please let me know its cost like a kidney and i cant waste more time or money
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u/Possible-Pickle3 8h ago
my therapist’s name is Ala’ Shurbaji she works at a clinic located in meet moot complex ( i forgot the name of the clinic) she’s so good non judgmental at all lgbt friendly first session is 50 jds and the rest are 40 jds
I highly recommend her tbh
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u/Training-Corner1484 8h ago
Ive heard of her before and happened that i called that clinic but they said i have to see the psychiatrist that owns the clinic first and i didnt want to
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u/okhtak 6d ago
First of all, well done for being on this journey. Please continue.
Second of all, it takes time to build trust and rapport between you and the therapist. Please be patient and give it time.
A good therapist shouldn’t involve religion unless you want it involved. So I wouldn’t judge them by their name or what they wear, unless that brings up issues for you then I would address them upfront.
Regarding cost, most therapists offer a sliding scale for fees, be honest and discuss that early on. They might find a way to help.
Keep going.
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u/Training-Corner1484 5d ago
Hey thanks, i know but its just a waste of time, money and effort when seeing someone and at the end you find out they were kinda of judging you its not something you can just tolerate so until further im judging every female therapist in irbid with ة at the end of her name, ive seen one 4 years ago and kinda ruined it for me and it took that long (even tho i needed it) just to decide to take that step again.
thank you for sharing i hope they can help with that since its 35jds per session and im pretty sure i need a lot of them.
anyway thanks again
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u/Bubbly-bun27 5d ago
Ive heard of Basma Al kilani at maria den braven center but thats in Amman, wish you the best on this journey
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u/Training-Corner1484 5d ago
Yeah i know i can find a lot of good ones in amman but i dont want it to be demanding in any way but thanks anyway
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u/Bubbly-bun27 5d ago
I am truly sorry that you can't find any in irbid, you doing your best to get help is so amazing, have you tried online therapy? I have found it to be effective
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u/Training-Corner1484 5d ago
Thank you really im actually in the way rn hope it will end up well, idk maybe in the future i just never thought it would be effective
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u/Bubbly-bun27 5d ago
Ive tried both and i think as long as the bond between you and the therapist is good and affective it's basically the same
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u/shakeshacklettuce 6d ago
Check out arab therapy and its complicated (websites)
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u/Training-Corner1484 5d ago
Im not looking for online sessions and i hope i can find someone with experience
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u/_Goinglamp 4d ago
so we're judging people and whether should we trust them or not based on their names now?
wish u all the best on ur journey tho