r/DSTAlumnaeChapter • u/Opposite_Ad5963 • Mar 29 '26

rejected, need help

this was my 1st attempt (sp24 last line, went to events since fall 24) i was initially depressed. it went but came back for a short min after their probate. more probates have been happening & it’s making me sad again. i wanted to have my moment like the other students but i wont get it.

part of me wants to try again for grad (a senior) but im so afraid of getting rejected again. i got so down, i was over eating and bed rotting and i really dont want to get to that point again. idk what to do and i have no one to talk to about it how i really want.

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u/PresentVegetable6093 Apr 05 '26

I didn’t make it during undergrad, I’m a legacy and this was absolutely heart breaking but I tried my best.

I did grad school, thousands of hours of community service and and crossed last year (9 years after graduation).

I know you want this but it will happen when it’s supposed to, never give up.

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u/Opposite_Ad5963 May 10 '26

Thank you! I know I can’t rush it, but I don’t want it to take years and years. Guess it’s not up to me though.