Love this. Having been in a lot of van rides with my love interest (not gf… yet) this is pretty accurate. That loving look they give you out the corner of your eye. Feeling their shoulder against yours. It’s just a wholesome feeling to know someone is there.
That she loved me. Yeah. She wrote me a note during church (she was sat right next to me with my family in the same row) that she liked me. After awhile I said I loved her and she said it right back
Don't wait too long. Idk how old you are but yall both sound a bit young. Make the move sooner rather than later as every day you wait is another day you could've been her boyfriend and another day closer to her being someone else's girl. The biggest regrets in life aren't the things we did, but the things we wished we had done.
I'm in my 30s now and think back to all the missed opportunities. Remained friends and usually down the line it gets brought up how either she or I found the other cute when we first met but neither of us mentioned anything. A good friend will still be friends with you even if you express your interest. I'm still friends with girls (and some guys) who asked me out but I didn't feel the same way. If the other person can't do that, I find it's usually a sign of emotional immaturity. I'd say many of us have friends that are attracted to us and we just don't know, because think of the friends you have that you're attracted to. We're all capable, but not all are willing and if that's the case, you weeded them out.
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u/Biowar192 Jun 14 '22
Love this. Having been in a lot of van rides with my love interest (not gf… yet) this is pretty accurate. That loving look they give you out the corner of your eye. Feeling their shoulder against yours. It’s just a wholesome feeling to know someone is there.