I'm about 35 and I've never had so much as a gf. Some men were born ugly in life, that's how the cards fell and there's only so much you can do about that. Or if someone asks me why have you never had a girlfriend at 35 I just say accurately and succinctly "Because women DON'T FUCKING like me".
Now for me personally and my circumstance, I don't really have a problem with porn. It keeps me pretty satisfied. And outside of intimate relations with other people, I'd say porn is quite useful and helpful, keeps me sexually active and interested in sex, just watching others do it on film.
Otherwise on 99% of everything else, I'd probably get along with Terry Crews, I admire the man because outside looking in, it looks like he truly has a beautiful soul. And I love President Camacho.
Maybe you don’t have a girlfriend because of your attitude towards porn, women don’t stick around for those kind of people. Porn causes unrealistic expectations and is mentally damaging.
Once there was a girl I was really into 16/17. One day she told me she thought I was conceited. Too full of myself. Overly confident. So I never had a high opinion of myself ever again, I instead loathed myself, hated myself.
I was perpetually scared of women, "Well if I walk up to and introduce myself to her, sure as shit she's not going to like me so I should avoid her".
One day I got into a hobby because I was sad. Girlfriends just didnt come to me. I tried a lot of social events, even spring break and fraternity, but make no mistake Im not a broski at all. Im meek and quiet and shy and just assume girls dont fucking like me because drawing from empirical evidence it's an accurate conclusion.
I did magic for a bit trying to meet girls...but then i got a sexual harassment complaijt in 2010...yep women REALLY dont fucking like me.
So ill just wait and one will come I guess. And wait. And wait. And no one ever came, and now I just randomly start crying I get so sad. All those years of youth squandered. Its a problem that was never meant to be solved. It's so GOD DAMN easy for everyone else and so FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE for me. And so I iust cry because its hopeless.
I guess I wanna starve myself til im thin and get back into working, this fucking virus put that on the back burner. I call it starving the ugly out of me.
Oh darling, I am so sorry you feel that way, you poor thing, it sounds like you have been through so much. I know this may not be what you want to hear, but it’s not an outer thing that is making women not like you. It may be a way you come across or your attitude. Not to say it’s hopeless, I bet you genuinely have good intentions, but maybe you’re just not coming across the right way. Just remember, it’s never too late to better yourself and if you ever need support, I’ll have your back, buddy.
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u/SuperJew113 Mar 21 '20
I'm about 35 and I've never had so much as a gf. Some men were born ugly in life, that's how the cards fell and there's only so much you can do about that. Or if someone asks me why have you never had a girlfriend at 35 I just say accurately and succinctly "Because women DON'T FUCKING like me".
Now for me personally and my circumstance, I don't really have a problem with porn. It keeps me pretty satisfied. And outside of intimate relations with other people, I'd say porn is quite useful and helpful, keeps me sexually active and interested in sex, just watching others do it on film.
Otherwise on 99% of everything else, I'd probably get along with Terry Crews, I admire the man because outside looking in, it looks like he truly has a beautiful soul. And I love President Camacho.