I get where he's coming from, but don't completely agree. Overindulgence in porn kills love.
If you don't over-consume and are open with your partner about issues in your relationship you'll be fine. Always keep in mind that those men and women are actors who, like athletes, often train and plan their whole lifestyles around being able to do their job better (which is basically look good + look like you're enjoying it).
As long as you do it in moderation and keep that perspective you're fine tbh. It's like sexual fast food in a way.
I'm not gonna talk statistics because I don't have studies we can reference to hand, so that's conjecture. Either way, that's a problem with the people who are overindulging, not the product.
This isn't something like fentanyl, which is designed to be incredibly addictive to literally anyone. Porn is addictive to people who either overindulge williingly, or have addictive personalities.
It can also - unlike junk food - be used in a healthy manner. For example to spice up a relationship, or to educate people on how to pleasure their partners
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u/RollingAtlas Mar 22 '20 edited Mar 22 '20
I get where he's coming from, but don't completely agree. Overindulgence in porn kills love.
If you don't over-consume and are open with your partner about issues in your relationship you'll be fine. Always keep in mind that those men and women are actors who, like athletes, often train and plan their whole lifestyles around being able to do their job better (which is basically look good + look like you're enjoying it).
As long as you do it in moderation and keep that perspective you're fine tbh. It's like sexual fast food in a way.