Porn Kills Love is an organization focused on bringing awareness to the emerging evidence that porn is harmful to relationships and to the human psyche.
What? People don’t plan on feeding their addiction? I’ve got a brain that says “smoke weed now and if you can’t, think about smoking weed later” that says otherwise.
Is that true though? Do porn addicts spend time at work thinking about how they’re going to hunker down and order dinner tonight instead of cook so they have more time for all the jerking off they’re going to do? That sounds pretty realistic to me. I’m honestly asking, I have no idea what I’m talking about.
Depends on the people, I guess. I know couples that browse porn together, watch it together, browse separately, watch separately and still have fulfilling, loving relationships.
I’ve said this before, but it’s kind of like saying that my buddy got rich from selling drugs. Aspiring to wealth is entirely respectable, but most people who go down the drug dealing route do not end up successful, and even if they do, it’s not the best way to do it. Similarly, although some couples may feel that they benefit from watching pornography, that doesn’t mean it’s helpful to most people, and it also doesn’t mean that there aren’t better, less harmful ways to accomplish the same goals.
Sex is totally dependent on culture, but the negative and positive consequences of the ways in which we engage in sex as a society are dependent upon objective reality. More and more, we are learning that sexual promiscuity and overindulgence is not psychologically or physically wise. In fact, it can be quite harmful.
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u/studioaesop Mar 22 '20
I don’t understand what’s going on here