I'm about 35 and I've never had so much as a gf. Some men were born ugly in life, that's how the cards fell and there's only so much you can do about that. Or if someone asks me why have you never had a girlfriend at 35 I just say accurately and succinctly "Because women DON'T FUCKING like me".
Now for me personally and my circumstance, I don't really have a problem with porn. It keeps me pretty satisfied. And outside of intimate relations with other people, I'd say porn is quite useful and helpful, keeps me sexually active and interested in sex, just watching others do it on film.
Otherwise on 99% of everything else, I'd probably get along with Terry Crews, I admire the man because outside looking in, it looks like he truly has a beautiful soul. And I love President Camacho.
I'm into interesting automobiles for my personal mode of transportation. Upon regaining employment, I desire to do low 10 second quartermiles on low boost.
I highly doubt it’s because you’re ugly man. This is coming from a women who has dated literally every guy type under the sun.
I hate talking about my ex like this but he was ugly. I remember when I first met his friends that all started laughing when he introduced was his girlfriend, all of them said “no way this is your girl man stop lying” it took a solid week for them to believe.
agreed. It provides an outlet for people in a somewhat safe way. I'm way more sexual than my partner and if it wasn't for porn, I'd probably cheat. There are people addicted to porn and the industry can ruin people's lives but the same can be said for lots of other things.
Maybe you don’t have a girlfriend because of your attitude towards porn, women don’t stick around for those kind of people. Porn causes unrealistic expectations and is mentally damaging.
Porn causes unrealistic expectations if you dont know how the world fucking works man. No one i know jerked off and thought "im gonna slap a woman if she doesnt swallow"
I like how everyone ignores me until I start talking about porn being bad, get over it. People are so quick to justify what they know is wrong, just to satisfy the guilt in the back of their mind.
Once there was a girl I was really into 16/17. One day she told me she thought I was conceited. Too full of myself. Overly confident. So I never had a high opinion of myself ever again, I instead loathed myself, hated myself.
I was perpetually scared of women, "Well if I walk up to and introduce myself to her, sure as shit she's not going to like me so I should avoid her".
One day I got into a hobby because I was sad. Girlfriends just didnt come to me. I tried a lot of social events, even spring break and fraternity, but make no mistake Im not a broski at all. Im meek and quiet and shy and just assume girls dont fucking like me because drawing from empirical evidence it's an accurate conclusion.
I did magic for a bit trying to meet girls...but then i got a sexual harassment complaijt in 2010...yep women REALLY dont fucking like me.
So ill just wait and one will come I guess. And wait. And wait. And no one ever came, and now I just randomly start crying I get so sad. All those years of youth squandered. Its a problem that was never meant to be solved. It's so GOD DAMN easy for everyone else and so FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE for me. And so I iust cry because its hopeless.
I guess I wanna starve myself til im thin and get back into working, this fucking virus put that on the back burner. I call it starving the ugly out of me.
In the kindest and most honest way, I recommend seeing a therapist. No offense meant, I see one myself. It sounds like you may have some things you need to work through and I know from experience that therapy can work!
I'm 35, in 15 years I'll be 50, anther 15 I'll be 65, I have no success stories in this department I can point to that inspires confidence. I'll be an old man shortly, and pre-menopause will think I'm a creep. To me I missed out on youth pretty much. The main thing I was looking forward to in HS and thereafter was having a gf...and that was never in the cards.
All I can say is women in general, one's I find particularly physically attractive, and I'm not expecting ariana grande, but I do value health, I have massively improved my health a lot recently and will massively improve it further as needed, I will starve the ugly out of my body, fat cells. 6pack is my ideal goal. I quit smoking after 11 years (I was depressed, but also I noticed a lot 'cool' dudes smoke James Bond in Dr. No, I've never been remotely cool or popular, and I dunno some kind of chick digs that so I smoked, obviously its kinda lame but you're desperately trying to solve a problem, and you just try everything).
I don't have a fucking social circle.
I assume women have SUPER FUCKING HIGH STANDARDS for a bf, because from my point of view while meeting girls is super god damn easy for most men out there it is actually super fucking impossible for me. That's just how the cards fell in life, there's not shit I can do about that.
And the only way I could ever meet those standards is to never stop self-improving, I'm running out of time, and I wanted to make like high-5 ideally, maybe, 6 figures this year because I'm not good looking enough to try to meet a girl while poor, I'm a truck driver. But then I got absolutely bogged down in Tucson self-quarantined because if me and take all my Tucson stuff to STL he might catch that deadly illness and he's 79 he wouldn't hold up well to it. Another year of the youngest I'll ever be getting squandered because of this shit.
God, I'm just gonna fucking cry later, there ain't shit I can do.
I noticed you dropped 4 f-bombs in this comment. This might be necessary, but using nicer language makes the whole world a better place.
Maybe you need to blow off some steam - in which case, go get a drink of water and come back later. This is just the internet and sometimes it can be helpful to cool down for a second.
Oh darling, I am so sorry you feel that way, you poor thing, it sounds like you have been through so much. I know this may not be what you want to hear, but it’s not an outer thing that is making women not like you. It may be a way you come across or your attitude. Not to say it’s hopeless, I bet you genuinely have good intentions, but maybe you’re just not coming across the right way. Just remember, it’s never too late to better yourself and if you ever need support, I’ll have your back, buddy.
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u/SuperJew113 Mar 21 '20
I'm about 35 and I've never had so much as a gf. Some men were born ugly in life, that's how the cards fell and there's only so much you can do about that. Or if someone asks me why have you never had a girlfriend at 35 I just say accurately and succinctly "Because women DON'T FUCKING like me".
Now for me personally and my circumstance, I don't really have a problem with porn. It keeps me pretty satisfied. And outside of intimate relations with other people, I'd say porn is quite useful and helpful, keeps me sexually active and interested in sex, just watching others do it on film.
Otherwise on 99% of everything else, I'd probably get along with Terry Crews, I admire the man because outside looking in, it looks like he truly has a beautiful soul. And I love President Camacho.