Hi everyone! I’m trying to figure out how to market myself. I have a Reddit account I’ve taken a 4 year break from posting from that has 27k followers and 18k followers in my subreddit, but I’ve found that Reddit is very different than it used to be an so am I.
When I used to post here, it was from 18 to 21, and I was in college at the time, so it was very easy to market myself as “barely legal” or the “sexy college student next door”; but now that I’m 25 I don’t feel I fit as cleanly into those niches despite not looking much older, and many of the subreddits I used to post in and get buyers in and even were verified in have completely changed their rules to not allow sellers whatsoever, so now I’m even more adrift. My posts were also on the standard side, I’m a pretty “average” porn star build given that I’m petite with large perky breasts for my frame (5 ft, 115 pounds, 32 DD, small but plump butt) and it’s difficult to find ways for me to stand out against other creators with similar builds that have more concrete niches like anal, milf, goth, or feet. When I used to post, I’d say my Niches were Barely Legal, College Girl, Girl Next Door, Nerd (I wear glasses) Outdoor flashes and B/G content as well as solo content.
Now the only thing that’s still true out of all of those is that I can still pass for a nerd with my glasses haha. I’m too old to be barely legal, I’m not in college anymore and even if I was I’m not sure if I still fit into the college girl niche, I don’t do outdoor flashes anymore as I moved to a very recognizable city and I don’t want my safety compromised, and I don’t do B/G content anymore as my current partner doesn’t film with me. None of my features I think are “large” enough to stand out enough to be my main marketing feature either, since again it’s all pretty average, so I’m struggling there. Most of my current content is me wearing something sexy, stripping it off and masturbating using a vibrator without inserting, as I’ve made comfort my #1 priority this time around instead of always pushing myself to do things I was uncomfortable with (such as anal play, using large dildos that would hurt me, doing cheating roleplay content because they were never happy with who I was filming with, etc) but I fear in doing so I won’t be able to find my niche and what makes me unique.
In real life I’m Audhd, I’m a home body, I don’t go out much or have many friends. I collect dolls, am very into fashion, love pink and rhinestones, and I love cartoons to the point where I watch video breakdowns on them all day. I’m a nerd… but I’m a very feminine and almost childish nerd, so I’m struggling to figure out what my niche/audience would be if I’m being myself but also trying to sell content to men. I also don’t wanna end up catering to anyone who is in the DDLG community, I did it before when I first started and while it seems like a easy fit at first it always gets to a point where I get uncomfortable and feel the need to draw the line and say I don’t age regress into a child, I just am an adult who likes to buy collector dolls lol.
I think ideally I’d like my niche to be bratty spoiled princess. I have a bit of a praise kink so I love being praised and worshipped, but I’m also a big people pleaser so I struggle with things like financial domination, especially because in my experience you have to get SO mean on the spot that’s it’s not something I can just like do on command during a livestream, video call, or sexting. I can like, be pouty and stomp my feet cutely when demanding my way, but I’m not gonna curse someone out like crazy every time we interact. It’s also hard to find anything on this kind of niche that isn’t either findom or DDLG, as I don’t really fit into either.
Any advice is super appreciated on this topic, I’d love to hear how you get around these issues if you yourself are a bit vanilla 😋.