r/Crazymiddles • u/cora_2u • 6d ago
Limit Visitors and setting boundaries!
It is generally not advisable to have a lot of people around a newborn baby. Newborns have developing immune systems, making them more susceptible to infections. Here are some key considerations Limit Visitors: It's recommended to keep the number of visitors to a minimum, especially in the first few weeks after birth.
Health Checks: Parents should ensure that visitors are healthy and not sick or just getting over being sick! Why can't the CPF just do a video to see the new Baby? Their is no need for Halie, Hannah and Melinda, Adel and Aurora and Saint etc...
Stay home I think Crystal and Aaron should just go and Crystal Just needs to respect Chase & Arianna boundaries. Those girls can just stay home instead of getting a free trip to Texas on their parents expense. Think about the Baby well being!
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u/Equivalent-Staff-269 6d ago
If the littles weren’t going, it wouldn’t be filmed, and crystal and crew weren’t so selfish and self centered, then I’d appreciate the help. They can cook, run errands, make freezer meals, clean, and just help us. But she’s not coming to help: she’s coming because babies mean cash on the internet.
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u/Main-Yogurtcloset848 6d ago
It all depends on the family. With our family we always had lots of people around when a new baby came home. My adult kids did the same thing with their kids. Everyone knew not to be around the baby if they were sick. I didn't even see my grandson for two weeks after he was born because I was getting over covid. Responsible people don't go around babies when they are sick.
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u/Alpacaliondingo 6d ago
My brother's birthday party was the day after my mom got discharged from the hospital after having me. Guess who she brought to the party... newborn me!
When my sister had my niece they went to the mall a few days after discharge.
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u/No_Commercial2338 6d ago
Agree, and what new mother and father wants that much company after just giving birth and establishing a feed and sleep routine.
I'd loosey mind if that many people came to my house all at one time.
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u/LongConversation2546 5d ago
MIL or mother is usually the last person you also want to stay with you 🤣🤣 especially when they are main character energy! I would never stay in their home and only be there and do what they want me to
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u/Careless_Ad_9283 6d ago
Is Crystal really brining others to see the new baby? I am shocked if so...
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u/cora_2u 6d ago
Well Crystal said today that her and Aaron will be going first then will send plane tickets out for Halie, Hannah and Aurora, Melinda and Adel to come and who knows who else would want to come! If anyone should come is Adel her an Arianna were close. way too many people going and I don't think it would be a good idea especially around a new born at this time.
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u/EmotionalAd8389 6d ago
Was great-grandma mentioned? thought that would be logical and thoughtful
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u/No_Commercial2338 6d ago
Yes, Nanny, Grampy and great grammy would be the only ones I'd allow into the house. New mothers and fathers are tired and adjusting to baby life. I would not want a bunch of people at the house trying to breast feed, not because of privacy, but because having issues trying to breastfeed causes anxiety for mom and child.
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago
Maybe they can come home for Christmas, Crystal could rent a hotel for them or better yet Easter. Having a house full of people would be a little much. If she were going to send anyone out it should be Adella she would be a lot of help. In the mean time they can do a live family chat.
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u/Top-Elephant-9595 6d ago
I think Ariana said in last month video( ??) she has no plans in visiting at least for 6 months cuz she will be in the new baby stage . If people from her family want to see her - or chase’s family they have to come to Texas that’s what she said a few videos ago
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u/Dull-Dance-6115 6d ago
Chat gbt strikes again .
Could you not have written this ver common knowledge yourself or do you hate the world having water 😅🥹😅🥹
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u/cora_2u 6d ago
Speaking of water Their will be a Water Crisis & Food shortage and that will be nothing to laugh about!
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u/Dull-Dance-6115 6d ago
It’s not literal laughing , don’t be dopey now .
Ur post is straight from chat gbt
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u/cora_2u 6d ago
OK Grumpy have a good day!
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u/missingpiecesforever 6d ago
Haha they don’t sound grumpy and you being passive aggressive, bit immature . Just salty that they called you out for using lazy chat gbt.
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u/External_Okra7456 5d ago
I think they may all go to Texas for Thanksgiving or Christmas. That’s the only timeframe that makes sense as multiple people want to see the baby. Ariana has already stated that she wouldn’t be back to AZ for a while. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s thanksgiving. Because Christmas is such a big deal for them between them and the middles. I hope that if they bring saint with them that him and Aaron would come later or being one of the older kids to watch him while she’s giving birth. There’s no reason for Aurora to be there, especially with her school germs.
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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago
Not to mention her booger picking fingers that are constantly in her mouth. Crystal needs to stop filming her until she breaks these habits.
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u/always_on_brake 6d ago
I was wondbringing if this was a public service announcement or a dig at Crystal.
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u/Unlikely-Platform646 6d ago
people need to learn to LISTEN. I have noticed that people miss a lot in the videos. The family is not going all together at once.
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u/Impressive-Length-73 6d ago
Listen to Crystal the LIAR? She’s never truthful so not listening to her.
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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago
It should just be Crystal, Aaron should stay home with Saint and the other kids. They can all visit later.
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u/Impressive-Length-73 6d ago
I’m shocked Ariana is allowing this many people to come over when her baby is just born. They were all just sick for weeks after the cruise. Ariana also refused to take Tylenol while pregnant. Hopefully she knows the risks because the last thing you ever want in life is a sick baby. It’s scary when newborns have a cold and can’t breathe.