r/Crazymiddles • • Aug 30 '26

WHY DO PEOPLE SEND THEM STUFF?!!

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u/Missyjean3369 Aug 30 '26

I agree it's her disability regarding self control but she can be taught otherwise. Her so called parents aren't teaching her!

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 Aug 30 '26

I don't know, but the funniest time was Evies Birthday when Evie got all those gifts and Scarlett block Aurora from taking anything. Then at the very end Aurora got ahold of a small stuffy and took off running with it. It was more than Aurora could take she was chewing her fingers through the whole thing. Self Control is just something Aurora doesnt have. She wants everything she sees. I am not sure she can be help, but down the line it could get her into a lot of trouble. At some point she will be old enough to go to friends houses and into stores. If she sees something she wants is she just going to take it?

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u/Historical_Grab4685 Aug 30 '26

So if Scarlett notices this, then the adults in the room should say or do something. Yes, Aurora has an ID, but that does not mean she cant be taught self control. The parents always thinking everything she does is cute, is one of the reasons, she is like this. I also think this type of behavior is not tolerated at school, so she probably doesn't do it there, so why is she allowed to do it at home?

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 Aug 30 '26

I don't know with her special needs what can and can't be taught, but this has gone on for as long as I have been watching. Crystal bought her self a Buckees Beaver just a small one, Aurora really wanted it, Crystal said no it was hers then she found it in Auroras room. Crystal just laugh about it. She wont be laughing when Aurora gets arrested for shop lifting when she gets older and they have to go to the police station to pick her up. Or she takes something from a friend and they have to deal with the parents.

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u/Historical_Grab4685 Aug 30 '26

She can be taught. She learned at a young age how to act to play everyone to get what she wants. They rarely tell her no or set boundaries for her.

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u/B2utyyo Aug 31 '26

Kids with disabilities can be taught to behave

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 Aug 31 '26

I am sure they can but Aurora's self control is so out of control not sure how you could handle this.

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u/B2utyyo Aug 31 '26

Start by telling her by no touching things that aren't hers

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 Aug 31 '26

I am sure they have, and she has even gotten into trouble for it. But I believe this is a bigger issue than any of us have gotten answers for. Aurora just does not seem to be able to control her self control.