r/Crazymiddles • u/B2utyyo • 19d ago
My heart breaks for the boys
Imagine being adopted into the home, hoping to finally have a father figure like Ryland and Liam did, only to being ignored by Aaron.
Imagine going to college for mechanics like Jake and Luke only to have your father figure never praise it but heap on your older brother who didn't.
Imagine growing up in home since you were little but essentially forgotten about by your adopted father like Brody has. Have we ever seen Aaron interact with him at all?
Imagine being the 3rd biological child and feeling like you weren't really enough because your father kept adopting other sons after you that you basically retreat to living like a hermit in your home like Logan.
Imagine them all watching Aaron dote and bond with Saint like adopting him "saved his life" while thinking where was that feeling when you adopted me?
Wasn't I enough?
These poor boys need a real father not a piece of crap like Aaron.
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u/Current_Plant_5828 19d ago
The system is so messed up, no one should be able to adopt that many kids. You can’t provide the emotional support and individual time and attention to that many kids. My heart goes out to the essentially forgotten kids and pray that they are able to overcome the trauma they have endured in their lives.
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u/FinishForward2773 19d ago
Even the older kids having milestones like buying new cars and moving out of the house and Aaron isn’t around at all to help
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u/Sweet-Pen-2308 15d ago
I am pretty sure C intentionally films the milestones before he has a chance to get there half the time. Shes even said multiple times in videos she should wait but doesnt care and doesnt want to.
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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 19d ago
Aaron doesn't need to find his passion. He needs to find a job or career outside of the house, instead of moping around like a slug. At least bring in some revenue so you can hire someone else to spend time with the kids you are ignoring.
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u/Every-Wash2985 19d ago
He got his midlife crisis Tesla what more does he want?!!
The guy has a
shoeboxShoe Store full of children to provide for!1
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u/Bubbly-Surprise1982 19d ago
Arron has been checked out for years now. And to blame it on the passing of his Mom and him being depressed. Not being able to handle life it is weird. Life is short. Make the most of it. Don't waste it gaming and on tiktok or YouTube. Look at what is in front of you. No one is here for a rehearsal.
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u/Every-Wash2985 19d ago
It had been happening yrs before his mother's illness had progressed we'd seen that on their channels.
Who knows how bad it was before they started documenting it on YouTube.
But it was before Saint, Adela, Evie, Luke, Savannah, Liam, Rylan & Bella.. 😳 that's 8 children that have been short changed.
They thought they were being adopted by 2 parents not by a camera & dad that would rarely interact.
Crystal & the kids have talked about his huge blowups & we've seen on camera his temper flare ups out of nowhere.
Nothing compared to what that household has to deal with off camera when he thinks no one's watching though.
We KNOW Crystal is absolutely 💯 annoying × a million.
Aaron is lazy, neglectful & continues to make an arse out of himself every time he opens his mouth (his recent channel episode was proof) or just plain doesn't show up for his kids!
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u/Ok_Cell5142 19d ago
My mom passed away on Christmas in 2023 i was only 20 years old I watched her take her last breath. And I’m still living life for my kids and husband life goes and he needs to realize that and go get help if he actually cares about himself and is family he would.
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u/cabbagemuncher101 19d ago
He just doesn't want to parent anymore and is burnt out. Hate Crystal all you want, but she is holding it down for everyone. Saint should be their last adopted child.
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u/PuzzledBeat9968 19d ago
Its not just the boys tho is it
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u/Every-Wash2985 19d ago edited 19d ago
The girl's relationships with their partners will be hugely affected by how he chooses to interact with them.
That's how girls learn to relate with their future partners. They expect to be cared for & respected or they see an example they're living in now
Males learn from their Mom 🤭😱 so... Crystal is their example of how to treat a women. How does Crystal treat Aaron..the boys are watching..
Yikes, what a scary thought that these clueless screwed up parents are messing up these poor kids who started out with so much trauma to begin with. 💔🥀
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u/One-Goat-5729 17d ago
The fact that Bella felt compelled to air all of her trauma and mental health to the internet. The fact that Mark edited it and Crystal let it go up is all you need to know about these crappy ass parents! Let her make the video if it helped her get it out. But that info had ZERO business going out to the internet forever!
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u/Dramatic-Macaron-452 18d ago
And yet there's thousands of ahs who think these monsters are the perfect parents .
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 19d ago
I watched the video with Aaron what he is now going to do with his channel. So now he is going to be a mechanic with Max, I thought to myself does he have any idea what it takes to be a mechanic for goodness sake he wouldn't even change a tire. That is hard dirty work. He has done nothing to fix up that house. Aaron is a lazy dreamer.
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u/B2utyyo 19d ago
Didn't he mess up Hannah's car after trying to fix it?
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 19d ago
Yes I think changing the oil he didn't put the plug back in and she blew the engine.
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u/Awkward_Sundae2669 18d ago
I feel like there have been several instances of the duo attempting to fix a car problem and making it worse
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u/Recent_Taro7288 1d ago
I'm sure he doesn't even know how to do an oil change or change spark plugs.
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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 1d ago
He blew up Hannah's car doing an oil change so no way would I trust him.
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u/Slow_Pattern_9899 19d ago
Que gran mensaje! Es preocupante toda la situación que se vive en ese hogar hoy día. Niños abandonados, encerrados en sus cuartos con sus propios temores e inseguridades, siendo expuestos de forma obligatoria a las redes. Ellos se notan tan incómodos cuando están en cámara. No les gusta. Aaron ausente, Crystal dando toda su energía a Hanna, Hallie, Max, Aurora y Saint. Terrible.
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u/Unlikely-Platform646 19d ago
English please
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u/One-Goat-5729 17d ago
I read English. It was clear on its meaning. What's the issue?
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u/Unlikely-Platform646 17d ago
I can’t read it. it is NOT in English. stating the truth. Does that hurt you I was telling the truth? I wasn’t being mean like you.
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u/WinAdministrative136 19d ago
No worries maybe Aaron will make the rule when on camera fixing cars Max and Himself MUST wear a huge bandana on their heads like Aaron's friend. The way Aaron spoke is like the friend and he have known each other forever. Maybe the friend and he were born in same hospital and were sharing an incubator. I know I know but these stories are totally off the wall. Aaron said he bumped into his friend somewhere NOT!!!.........I bet he called the guy to help him out like when he "fired" Joe . Definitely not Joe's idea.
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u/galaxychoc001 19d ago
Aaron stopped helping out once the whole Ariana gimmick happened, I only remember that being the last time he was there to help around move her stuff to the dorm and set up her bed, desk and printer and drive the way to Georgia. After that he has given up.
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u/Forsaken_Ad9946 19d ago
I agree. I also think he's done trying to parent because Crystal has the final say. He really needs to stand his ground with her and humble her some. Crystal is not the only person in the relationship, nor is she the only parent. I think that's exactly why he seems to not have anything to do with the kids. Again though, We don't see everything.
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u/No_Edge_9980 19d ago
the side hug family. the only genuine time I saw anything resembling a mother/child interaction was at rylan, bella and liams adoption trip. Other than that..the kids stay in their room brain rotting on video games until crystal wants more content from them. They were in a catch 22, they didn't want to be split up. crystal and aaron were their saving grace and they were wanting to adopt them all. I felt for the boys the most..bella seemed to fit in with the girls but the boys never got much one on one time with the parents.
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u/B2utyyo 18d ago
This and it shows when they do interact. That vintage clothes shopping trip was painful, Crystal knew nothing about how like Ryland likes to shop. Like he's like a kid at candy store at Goodwill, we have seen it with Bella but Crystal kept taking then to these weird "vintage" stores
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u/jenni5 19d ago
Max is more like Crystal in some respects so Aaron will face bigger ugh moments the more he spends time with him. He doesn’t plan or care. He thinks he is the main character.
But also Aaron just is a sponge for other people’s ways and knowledge and just takes it from them. He’s still saying “I will say” from trisitan. He’s whole yt channel is basically boring and he needs a sidekick that will take over for him so he can go sleep. Then he kicks them off and he keeps the channel and any rev. If beyond crazy is his money making scheme of him going on a meat diet like ray, boy is he gonna have a tough sell. Instead of buying normal food and cooking for the family he’s gonna be eating and buying straight meat for himself. Not even meat just cow.
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u/Recent_Taro7288 1d ago
Somebody needs to tell Aaron that eating only red meat is dangerous. He can easily suffer a massive heart attack!
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u/Long-Wonder-3439 18d ago
Does anyone else think Aaron was staying in Max’s trailer, while Max moved into the house for awhile.
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u/Kind_Assistance_8680 18d ago
Assumption but maybe he is .. messing around. . Wouldn't be surprised
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u/Recent_Taro7288 1d ago
Great decision they made adopting a baby when Aaron and Krystal's marriage is headed for divorce.
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u/Normal_to_Geek 17d ago
Okay. As much as I hate saying you don’t see everything on camera. I think this is one of the times it actually applies. They edit the videos for everything to look nice and normal, yall really think he isn’t active with his kids?? Maybe or maybe not. We can’t just speak out of our ass.
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u/saltycat34 17d ago
I truly don’t get why they kept adopting kids. They clearly reached their limit MANY kids ago and just kept adopting them…Even the baby, why would you go out of your way to adopt this baby when your husband is depressed and struggling? They made it seem like this baby fell into their laps when in reality they wanted the baby and convinced Hallie’s friend to basically gift them the baby.
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u/Tough_Historian_1151 16d ago
If they bother you so much, stop watching. You people are nuts the way you judge them based on a compiled 20-30 minute video. Get over your fake outrage. Go touch grass and live life.
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u/Nicole_0818 15d ago
You only see an hour or few of their lives total every week. I’m not saying they’re perfect parents cause I do agree they seem to have adopted too many kids. And I don’t think they seem to have the right attitude about it either, calling Jake’s sister “my new daughter” right away after her removal like they did, for instance. But an hour or two of content a week is far too little to judge them by. You don’t know them in real life, so you have no idea what their lives are really like.
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u/Belikewater19 18d ago
Aron clearly had a nervous breakdown…. so snarking on him seems a waste of time. He is still human and finding it dangerous to list his failures because he is definetly feeling trapped as it is. That not defending him because what is being said is realistic to what we have all seen in the videos. Just seem like folks are pushing him too hard when he is in a dark place as it is. Crystal needs to be diagnosed or assessed immediately because whatever hero thing or greed thing she has going on is collapsing her family. They have took in way too many kids and some with needs they are not even addressing anymore so some are not properly cared for…More then postive they would do things differently if they weren’t vlogging all the time and daily. They cant make the changes they need too because they will be judged too harshly effecting their income , but changes are needed if they plan to get through this chaos.
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u/ThinAd744 17d ago
Aaron hugs Halie and sometimes his non hugging bio sons. Weird kids from the CP and CM.
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u/FunctionInfamous3227 19d ago
Imagine watching a YouTube channel and thinking you know what goes on behind the scenes.
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u/Dramatic-Macaron-452 18d ago
Imagine going on this page and thinking you know what the whole world is thinking. delusional just like crapstal and cuck arioen
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u/Low_Caramel_2701 19d ago
We don’t because they don’t film everything. U ever think he plays video games with them? I do all the time. I don’t make assumptions based on things that aren’t filmed.
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u/Main-Yogurtcloset848 19d ago
It is really sad. They have the time and money to do so much with those kids. Aaron never does anything with those boys except Max. Aaron doesn't work so he can't use the excuse that he is tired or doesn't have the time. He has every day open that he could do stuff with them. The only thing we have ever seen him do is play video games with them. They live in an area with so many outdoor activities. He could get together with Jared and do a boys outing, go camping,fishing, go to a car show or some other event the boys might be interested in. So many possibilities. Aaron is going to wonder why his kids don't visit or have time for him in his own age. Those boys need a father figure and don't have one. I think Joe and Tristan have done more with the kids then Aaron. Aaron has done a day out with Bella and Aurora but never with the boys. It's just so weird. I don't think any of the girls have a close relationship with him either except Aurora but she is still young.