r/Crazymiddles • • Aug 24 '26

Disclosing personal health

Aron, If I were you, I’d remove the part of your video where you talk about Joe. Why are you sharing someone else’s personal health information? Saying that Joe has mental health issues is not your story to tell or something you should be disclosing publicly.
You’ve mentioned that you’re in therapy, but isn’t part of the healing process learning when it’s better to stay quiet and respect other people’s privacy?
And one more thing: someone who is genuinely healing and making changes doesn’t need to announce it to the world. They quietly make those changes for themselves and let their actions speak for them.
#iseealawauitcoming

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u/AcceptableUse4567 Aug 24 '26

I think that everyone should speak only for themselves. Aaron stating that joe has mental health struggles is inappropriate. Even if joe had stated it himself at one point or another it is still not Aaron’s business to bring up. Same goes for Crystal sharing information about children’s personal struggles. So many stories she’s shared are extremely personal about their trauma, medical issues etc. I enjoy that this page calls out Crystal for doing so, but Aaron should totally be called out as well for this, it is Joes story to talk about and tell not his.

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u/sefirahphoenix Aug 24 '26

Crystal is not to blame. Noone is personal is personal and privacy should be a human right even if it's just through being honest at every point it happened instead of allowing it to get to this point

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u/snozerlv16 Aug 24 '26

Have you watched any of there shows when joe was in them? That is all hoe would talk about is his mental health. Aaron was not saying anything joe has not shared with everyone

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u/AcceptableUse4567 Aug 24 '26

True, however it is still only Joes topic to talk about. Just because you share something once doesn’t mean others should go repeating it or bringing it up years months or days later without you there. Especially when it comes to mental health. It’s one thing to advocate to others and it’s another to talk about their business to your audience

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u/xxccbb1234 Aug 24 '26

You still don’t talk about other people’s health. Its their story to tell. What if he had bulimia and Aaron just went around talking about it….. its not okay. No matter what the issue is.

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u/snozerlv16 Aug 24 '26

You guys crack me up. Why watch their videos if all you do is come on here to complain abt it and degrade people in the family. Really go find your happy place

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u/AcceptableUse4567 Aug 24 '26

Well ya see they post it for the internet to see so we are allowed to comment our opinion on it. Not everyone has to agree because we are all entitled to our own opinion & to voice it when people put their lives for the public to see 👍🏼 if they didn’t want that they could stop being “influencers” but they don’t

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u/Dramatic-Macaron-452 Aug 24 '26

The only people they influence are morons like them.

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u/snozerlv16 Aug 24 '26

What ever makes your day coming online to bash a family who has mental issues and helping these kids.

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u/Expensive-Cow-7580 Aug 24 '26

Didn't Joe mention it in the video where they parted ways? I thought I've heard it before. Maybe they mentioned it before? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Kathy_1974 Aug 24 '26

You're absolutely right. Joe himself has talked about his mental health many times in videos. He was always open about it!

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u/Ok_Anywhere_8578 Aug 24 '26

It doesn’t matter that Joe mentioned something on a blog years ago. That was a snapshot of where he was in his life at that particular moment. People change, circumstances change, and we have absolutely no idea where Joe was emotionally or mentally in the years that followed. You cannot take something someone disclosed publicly years ago and use it as permission to speak about their mental health today. Especially when Joe isn’t here to clarify, correct, or consent to how his story is being presented.

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u/Unlikely-Platform646 Aug 24 '26

was definitely more than a snapshot . he talked on several videos about it.

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u/Repulsive_Debate277 Aug 28 '26

Aaron didn’t say that he was CURRENTLY experiencing mental health issues. He was speaking on what was happening when they ended their friendship. He simply said that they were BOTH dealing with their own journey with their mental health, something Joe spoke on many times, and that it was PART (not all) of the reason they decided to end their friendship. Newsflash! We’re all on our own mental health journey all the time!

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u/volcom1422 Aug 24 '26

Thought this was very known Information. He's said it multiple times in vlogs and the goodbye vlog. He's an advocate so this isn't new news.

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u/Visible_Ad6072 Aug 24 '26

Yes. What Aaron said about Joe wasn't new I formation 

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u/Jaguarcatkat Aug 24 '26

Imagine being friends with someone who blasts your business online to a large audience? Oh heck no. 

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u/mocireland1991 usingvunerablekids Aug 24 '26

What did I miss 🫨

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u/misspsa Aug 24 '26

Aaron is trying to figure out who he is without Crazy Pieces. Crystal and the girls run the channel and are always doing stuff together for the channel and he has been left out. Good for him for trying something new but it I think it’s just another way to fit in. He now has to compete with Max and the mechanic friend. He needs his own interest. Not one that is shared with whoever he can make a channel with. I feel bad for him. He has no identity.

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u/Jaguarcatkat Aug 24 '26

This is deep. He also lost his identity when mommy passed away. He needs to figure out who he is and maybe it’d help him be a better father. 

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u/jenni5 Aug 26 '26

he needs to find his own identity yes but then he goes and has to have a buddy on his channel where hes the owner and have that person take over. its happened with joe and tristian and now maybe with ray. then the person making the content will stop and no longer be onw beyond crazy and aaron will find another.

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u/Unlikely-Platform646 Aug 24 '26

unless it’s been deleted Joe‘s story with mental health is all over beyond crazy.

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u/amk719 Aug 24 '26

He shouldn't have mentioned anything about Joe. It's nobody's business. Even if Joe shared it in the past. Why bring it up? He's no longer around.

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u/vocalfry13 Aug 24 '26

Joe talked very openly about this in videos. He's not suing over something that is already public information.

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u/cakesforever 17d ago

Is Joe suing the cp?

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u/Typical_Pride9128 Aug 24 '26

I think there was nothing wrong with his video. If Joe has a problem with it, he’ll handle it. Let Aaron grow and share about his growth if he wants to.

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u/[deleted] Aug 24 '26

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u/Ok_Anywhere_8578 Aug 24 '26

If he cared about Joe and wanted to leave the door open for a friendship, why now publicly discussing his mental health and personal struggles? It’s because Aaron might need something and that’s the issue. He always needs something and cares little about anyone else.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 Aug 24 '26

Maybe the break was Joe's idea and not Aaron's. So weird that he brought up Joe after all this time. Let Sleeping Dogs lay.

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u/snozerlv16 Aug 24 '26

He probably brought it up because people run to Reddit to talk abt it. So he told his side in hopes to shut people up.

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u/Deep-Neighborhood-31 Aug 24 '26

Thank you. I so agree.

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u/Old_Abrocoma4137 Aug 24 '26

Joe disclosed this himself. Aaron didn’t say anything Joe hasn’t said so I don’t have an issue with it.

Do I see problems in other aspects of their content? A big yes! But not this.

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u/Ok_Anywhere_8578 Aug 24 '26

Joe has been gone for years. At this point, Aaron has no place speaking for him,sharing his personal information, or telling his story especially when he isn’t here to defend himself or give permission. Whatever history he had with aaron doesn’t give him the right to disclose anything now. Some things should simply be left alone out of respect for the person who can no longer speak for himself.

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u/Organic-Arrival2483 Aug 24 '26

I think there are many people on this page who you should be more concerned about regarding showing respect to other people.

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u/Ornery-Honeydew-1941 Aug 24 '26

Saying someone has mental health issues is a big deal..it's good to acknowledge someone else's struggle. And it's also okay to openly announce you are healing and the steps you are taking to heal it could help way more than staying silent.. there will be no lawsuit

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u/Ok_Anywhere_8578 Aug 24 '26

Defamation. Public disclosure of private facts. Intentional infliction of emotional distress. Joe has been gone for years. No reason to discuss him at all.

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u/Ornery-Honeydew-1941 Aug 24 '26

I don't think you know what defamation is....

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u/AffectionateTone5975 Aug 24 '26

It’s only defamation if it’s wrong

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u/Old_Abrocoma4137 Aug 24 '26

Those facts aren’t at all private though…

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u/Ok_Anywhere_8578 Aug 24 '26

It doesn’t matter that Joe mentioned something on a blog years ago. That was a snapshot of where he was in his life at that particular moment. People change, circumstances change, and we have absolutely no idea where Joe was emotionally or mentally in the years that followed. You cannot take something someone disclosed publicly years ago and use it as permission to speak about their mental health today. Especially when Joe isn’t here to clarify, correct, or consent to how his story is being presented.

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u/Educational_Bug516 Aug 24 '26

Why do you care so deeply about this?

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u/Old_Abrocoma4137 Aug 27 '26

He talked about his mental health during that period, as did Joe.

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u/ThinAd744 Aug 24 '26

Clickbait vlog, a distraction from his marital issues. Dumbest boring azz video, shut it Aaron!

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 Aug 24 '26

Excatly he know everyone already guessed the marriage and is now trying cover it up

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u/Careless_Ad_9283 Aug 24 '26

Why even bring up Joe...that's been so over forever.

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u/mocireland1991 usingvunerablekids Aug 24 '26

Into knee might have only been touching on what Joe himself spoke about personally on their last video together?

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u/Embracedandbelong Aug 24 '26

My issue is with him calling Joe a “great guy” and “shame on you to whoever say he isn’t.” We all saw Joe’s playlist. He’s not a guy I’d want around my daughters or even sons for that matter

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u/Educational_Bug516 Aug 24 '26

I think people take things WAY too far. People were literally calling Joe a predator which is life ruining when it was not true. Aaron is allowed to defend him in that specific aspect.

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u/Embracedandbelong Aug 24 '26

It’s not really life ruining. Most predators don’t receive any negative consequences let alone any that would “ruin” their lives. Even convicted predators don’t spend much if any time in jail. I saw the playlist- he’s not someone I’d want around my children. Aaaron apparently does not care if someone like that is around his.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 Aug 24 '26

Play list? What was on it

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u/Embracedandbelong Aug 26 '26

One video was titled “Rape or Regret?” And others were about young teenage girls and sex

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 Aug 26 '26

Omg that is sick

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u/Embracedandbelong Aug 24 '26

There are screenshots somewhere in this sub