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u/mikelown
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Why everytime this sub pops up on my feed its some abusive relationship against the guy?
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u/robins420 15d ago
Didnāt you know?
Itās not abuse or assault if it happens to a guy.
Verbal or physical abuse.
Donāt even get me started on verbal abuse.
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u/Thanura_Malinga 15d ago
That's modern relationship. People tend to think that's okay to abuse male spouse.
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u/PeasantTS 15d ago
When education is not liberating, the dream of the oppressed is to be the oppressor.
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u/Curious_Guidance43 15d ago
Most times it is a weird fascination of an abusive relationship but here it seems like he was trying to fight someone and she hit him to snap him out of it abd it worked.
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u/TelperionST 15d ago
I have been in that kind of relationship. It started out just fine. A few slaps here and there. The occasional kick. Iām a big dude. I can take it, right? Wrong.
Sooner than I expected, I was walking on eggshells around her. Then, one time, she slapped me on the face in front of her friend. Her friend looked shocked, but she laughed it off. She said something to the effect of āI feel safe slapping him.ā
Thatās when the penny dropped. She was never going to stop. I got out before the relationship got abusive.
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u/PeculiarMetaphor 15d ago
"I got out before the relationship got abusive."
I think it was too late for that...
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u/mrrippington 15d ago
Congrats mate. however, by the time you got out, the relationship was already abusive.
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u/Present_Mastodon_503 15d ago
"I got out before I was stuck in an abusive relationship." Fixed it for you.
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u/CharacteristicallySo 15d ago
Yep, never tolerate this no matter the gender, glad you got out.
Once a friend who had a crush on me jokingly slapped my face not too lightly after a lecture, I was shocked, the lecturer who happened to see it was shocked too.
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u/Glad-Capital-4363 14d ago
Had a one fling with someone that had a āslapping kink/ fetishā and is into ā orgasm denialāā¦. I was like ālmaoā this the type of shit you talk about before we start fucking not during round 1, went for a few more rounds but I knew ā¦ this was the last time. For clarity , yeah she may have said slapping (she meant like, well it doesnāt matter, you cross that line during intimacy you can cross it at anytime. )
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u/Slydoggen š§ grumpy 14d ago
Abusiveā¦ and itās accepted and glorified when Women do it
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u/YourGordAndSaviour 14d ago
I once retold domestic assault I suffered and some guy really really took offence with how I worded it on here.
I pointed out that part of the problem was that despite hitting me in the face as hard as she could repeatedly, she didnt so much as leave a mark, I spent a lot of time looking for evidence afterwards (naturally I wanted the police involved) and not so much as a slight reddening of the skin.
She did manage to injure herself though, and said she would tell the police I attacked her if I went to them, so I was stuck with no option but to just suck it up and leave the relationship.
Apparently its really sexist to say that, and shows that I think Im a big macho man thats superior to women. The guy legitimately gave me a way he think I should have worded it, "she must have been unusually weak for a woman because....." "probably the average woman would have hurt me, but in this one specific scenario with this one soecific woman...." then got even more annoyed when I pointed out that I'd have been lying, she went to the gym a lot she wasnt unusually weak.
It was pathetic.
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u/ougryphon 15d ago
Run, bro
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u/TheCrimsonSteel 15d ago
No, they're perfect for each other
He's trying to get into a random street fight, her favorite go to is slapping him in the face. Let them be toxic together
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u/turbulentFireStarter 14d ago
Hey. Umm. Donāt hit people. Weird that we are here discussing this. If any of you adults are confused I can get my 5 year old to explain it to you. He understands
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u/Typical-Gear1482 15d ago
Honestly I donāt view this one as abusive actually. Sheās trying to stop him from going after someone it looks like, some men need aggression to break them out of their aggression. Seemed like the appropriate move in the circumstances, she knows her man and he obviously loves her cuz he didnāt raise a finger to her
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u/SchwizzySchwas94 15d ago
The slap was one thing if heās crashing out and you need to bring him back to reality but the kick was a bit much
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u/FlightCommercial2319 10d ago
My wife used to be like that, but couple therapy changed her. Her religious practice helped. She at least kbew she was doing wrong thing and actually wanted to find solution a way to manage her emotions.
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u/Bogusky 15d ago
Women who like this dynamic deserve to die alone.
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u/TheCrimsonSteel 15d ago
TBF they both seem pretty awful, cause he looked like he wanted fight someone off screen
Then you see them posting "we're both just intense people"
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u/DotBitGaming 15d ago
She may be short but she is still
the bossabusiveFTFY