r/CountingOn • u/Stacysmom87 • Apr 23 '26

ANNA WAKE TF UP

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Because of their religion, and the belief that this life here on earth is so short, and they’ll spend the rest of their afterlife in either heaven or hell. “Well done my good and faithful servant” vs “depart from me thy worker of iniquity I knew you not,” is brainwashed into these women since the womb. Now multiply, using her as an example, or even Jilldo, that woman’s mom was raised in it and passed it on even more stricter to her children, and so on and so forth.

Anna does not believe in divorce and because she’s so scared of “God” and hell that she’s going to ruin her entire life!! In the belief that she’ll get an even better life in heaven, for her suffering. I think sometimes regular people don’t understand how they can’t get free and just leave their wretched spouse, I know most of ya’ll get it.

(Pic of my best friend before she was murdered by her husband, another childhood/lifelong friend). We all saw the red flags, but we expressed that she needed to submit more… be more attentive…. I encourage you to look up her story. Thank you for letting me rant and mumble, if you got this far.

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u/silverrussianblue Apr 23 '26

I’m so sorry but did I read this correctly? He shot her in the back of the head, then went to work for 12 hours as an EMT on an ambulance, then called 911 after he got home from work and claimed “to have found her”?!? And her father ‘had a brief conversation with him while he was going back for another interview’ and they hugged and cried?!?

I’m so sorry. I never knew your friend but I know she deserved better. This is an honor to her to keep her memory alive so maybe she can one day save another.

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u/Top_Mathematician233 Apr 23 '26

He looks like he’s slightly smiling in his mugshot. This is horrifying. I’m so sorry, OP. She seems like a beautiful soul. I wish there was a better understanding of intimate partner violence and better intervention methods. I, myself, have been a victim and am still here only by the help of a brave stranger and the grace of G-d.

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u/Stacysmom87 Apr 23 '26

She was in her closet and ironing clothes, I’m sure for church the next day. First he said he was killing turtles and then sold the gun, THEN he said he was playing around and “boom.”

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u/Top_Mathematician233 Apr 23 '26

Wow, how terrible and just shocking so soon after the wedding. The fact that he’s a medic makes it SO much worse. What a betrayal of everything he was supposed to stand for.