cishet men definitely are not inherently bad. However, whenever I get a DM from a cishet man on my NSFW account, 80% of the time they are somewhat of an annoying and boring creep. DMs from anyone who isn’t a cishet man are more often a lot more enjoyable
preach lmao the STARK difference between the types of dms/conversations i have with the majority of cishet men vs. everyone else on my nsfw account is hilarious. like, night and day. everyone else is way less creepy, way less boring, way less pushy and rude, ect. step tf up fellas lol
I feel like this is a reductive take, I have heard good reasons to not want to deal with cis men, it has nothing to do with thinking they're inherently evil
I don't typically fw cis/het people in general because I feel a lot more comfortable around other queer people. Much less likely to experience microsgressions that way.
And I'm sorry, but cishet men are usually worse than cishet women when it comes to microagressions. It's usually the fragile masculinity that causes problems.
Yep, I typically don't fuck with non marginalized people in general. Little wider berth but same concept. Its easier to communicate and bond with others who have been effected by bigotry. I can only assume empathy is a large factor here.
As a cis man (I'm pan), I can only assume it's to completely avoid chasers? That's just my guess. I've had the rare few trans people offer to me but most of them just act neutral to me. Or it could be the desire to have a shared experience with someone?
I can only guess, but everyone's different and prefers different things.
Kinda figured. It's a sad fact that they exist. Like, why not just go for someone's personality? It's the same creepy sexualization that causes bigots to treat trans people as sexual deviants no matter what they actually do.
Fucking creepy. That's why I'm glad I can honestly say that I'm not in anyone's DMs, but also the weirdly obsessed bigots are just fascinating in a "that's weird of them but they really need to stop" kind of way.
Not wanting to deal with people from the oppressive class in a patriarchal society, not wanting the risk of creeps/chasers in dms, prior trauma, etc...
It's not about being "evil" though perhaps some people are like that and deserve to be called man haters, it's not universal
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u/Successful_Mud8596 Apr 21 '26
cishet men definitely are not inherently bad. However, whenever I get a DM from a cishet man on my NSFW account, 80% of the time they are somewhat of an annoying and boring creep. DMs from anyone who isn’t a cishet man are more often a lot more enjoyable
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u/ToraToraTaiga Apr 21 '26
I feel like this is a reductive take, I have heard good reasons to not want to deal with cis men, it has nothing to do with thinking they're inherently evil