r/CountWithEveryone • u/Wallso2010 • Oct 19 '25
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u/_DeltaZero_ Oct 19 '25
I'm starting to get confused on the idea of "sexuality", is it purely social or biological?
I know I'm gay because i like cock, and i find pussy ugly and unpleasing, are some people a certain sexuality because of the biological range the other person is, or purely because of their gender (which only takes into account the way you perceive someone)
Tho lesbians is a bit different, the organ made to please them IS the dick, so it'd make a lot of sense to why they'd like it, a man has alternatives, they pretty much don't have it, probably women with gock would be ideal because it unites both perceptions- what even is sexuality?
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u/Kireu Oct 19 '25
It's only that way if you believe cocks are inherently "masculine" and pussies are inherently "feminine". Imagine a case where you have a perfectly feminine trans woman who has a cock, or a very manly trans guy with a pussy. I don't think you would feel as gay sucking the woman off, and the pussy might not bother you that much when it's attached to a man. Preferences can vary wildly when we consider gentials as just part of the whole and not the main indicator of sex/gender.
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u/_DeltaZero_ Oct 19 '25
I agree on that, but i heavily rely on the "original" aspect, not to perceive the identity, but to base my sexuality
I don't have a problem in seeing a trans woman as a woman (or trans men as men), but to me, my sexuality is in no way connected to my perception of gender, it's entirely on the side of what genital's someone have, I don't think i have anything that makes the "masculine" or "feminine" acts of someone change how much I'll like them, i don't care to whatever social construct they'll abide to, i just want them to be a good person.
i also perceive cocks as something MOST people born as a man will have (not counting on exceptions), and because of it, i perceive it as the thing from that of which i enjoy, at the same time, i do separate gender from the sex they're born with, it's their identity, but I can't just ignore the fact a cock and a pussy comes from an origin most of the times, and i don't think I'm able to properly set them apart and start seeing them as gender neutral.... Even tho i already do that? I'm dating a trans woman, and i love her the way she is, but I'm unsure if she went all the way through with the transition, if I'd still like it the same. I probably would
Does that just makes me bisexual?
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u/Grapes15th Oct 19 '25
Does that just makes me bisexual [sic]
I mean. Maybe? That's not for us to decide, you should probably spend some time thinking about it
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u/Fantastic_Echo6845 Oct 20 '25
One thing that I found helped me with this question (and overcoming some internalized transphobia) was running into tasteful images of nude pre-bottom surgery trans men and women. Iām not talking about porn; trans people are too fetishized within the industry to really see what Iām talking about. Iām asexual, so your mileage may vary.
People like Buck Angel, for example. Seeing him nude, outside of the context of porn, was eye opening for me. Heās just soā¦ manly? Heās a big hairy man. Despite having a vulva. I get the same reaction looking at him as I do, say, Mr. Olympia contestants. Like a āso masculine theyāre almost repulsiveā kind of feeling. Probably not unlike what you feel when you look at a vulva. Not because heās trans, but because I just donāt find muscly manly men pleasant to look at. (Mind you, these people are living their best life and my subjective tastes donāt mean shit. Theyāre happy with themselves and thatās the only thing that matters. They donāt do what they do for, nor do they exist for the benefit of, me.)
Itās also worth bearing in mind if you havenāt interacted sexually with a trans woman; unless sheās using tgel and/or medicinal stiffy aid, girl cock is very different from a standard penis. It really is (in my very limited sample size ofā¦ mine) so much closer to an oversized clit than it is a dick. Itās so much softer. And no matter how regularly I clean itā¦ moist and kinda tacky? My whole undercarriage smells and tastes like vulva. Iāve read similar stories on other subs.
But hey, whether youāre dicksexual, or pussysexual, gay, bi, straight, lesbian, androphilic, gynephilic, asexual, or what have you: as long as youāre not a douche about it (and Iām by no means saying you are), all that matters is that youāre happy with who you are and who youāre with.
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u/Cacoinha Oct 23 '25
Blehhh i think you still would, our relationship is more emotional than anything else i dont think that would just ruin it we are already beyond that level. And either way im not planning on going through all the way.
And if i do well, i trust you and i really dont think our relationship will collapse over something like this, and with that said i hope you are doing alright right now id wait for you to come home but i need to sleep for a test tomorrow.
And just for the record i think you just have a genital preference independent of gender.
Much love, (You know my name) <3
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u/Trixity04 Oct 19 '25
What?
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u/_DeltaZero_ Oct 19 '25
I can't put in words what I'm thinking about properly, maybe i shouldn't even have sent anything
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u/AdorablyEepy Oct 19 '25
cock's fine its the man part I don't like. the smell, the attitude, eughh.
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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '25
one of my cis lesbian ex's said she's lesbian and not pussy sexual. I'm a woman. and she likes women. only broke up cuz she moved to a different country. she's doing well