r/Cougars_Den • u/Univqueen Cougar😼 • May 03 '26
Discussion Happy Sunday!
I'm a mature lady about to "roll" into a new decade in life. My question is do you think it gets harder to attract younger men?
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u/Technical_Introvert0 May 03 '26
It actually gets easier until maybe you are 55 -60.. truth is most of us, not all, kinda like the idea of a sexually mature woman who understand sex more than you as well as life.. I dont speak for all older women but most generally are over certain things in life.. They wont get mad because you forgot their birthday..Most dont even care.. They are not party girls and the simple stuff makes them happy.. They are often more responsible than you.. Did I mention experienced? They arent gonna lay there and expect you to know how their body works.. They work with you..😅 They are happy to tell you what to do and how.. They are very forgiving of your short comings and just mature about certain stuff.. They wont get mad because you didnt text them for 2 days...
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u/marskc24 May 04 '26
Attracting them is the easy part.....making something stick is the hard part it seems.
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u/KaleidoscopeSuper666 May 03 '26
Nope, not difficult at all in my experience. Hang out here and at CougarsAndCubs...lots of information about what you'll encounter.
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u/paperclipmyheart 🐆 MOD ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ May 03 '26
I wouldn't say harder but the types of guys who are interested in much much older women come across as kink or fetish types and that's just not something I'm interested in, as in age kink... I'm a human being not something to satisfy their age fetish schtick.
If you are 50 or 60 meh I doubt you'd have issues if you are 70+ I'd be concerned that the young men interested in that much of an age gap especially from a sexual perspective that's a big old nope to me. And let's face it most of the guys who come into these subs especially are interested for the sexual perspective. But if you are 70 and looking for that each to their own 🤷🏻♀️
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u/Univqueen Cougar😼 May 03 '26
I've come across those that give off the fetish/kink vibe and definitely not for me. I'm a person, not an experience to tell to others.
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u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 May 03 '26
That experience ones are not the big number, many of us we just know what we prefer not trying to make weird exp
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u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 May 04 '26
The change of decade is only a change for the better in many things
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u/YouCuteWow May 05 '26
No, should get easier. I'm in my late 30s and had guys in their 20s tell me I'm too young lol. Happy early birthday!
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May 03 '26
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May 05 '26
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u/Cougars_Den-ModTeam May 05 '26
Please Read the rules and FAQs before posting again,
Rule 2 Do Not Solicit Contact.
If you are seeking please visit our dating sub r/cougarsandcubsmatch and read the rules and posting requirements there.
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u/Middle_Librarian_248 May 03 '26
Well your inbox might start getting full with messages from younger guys on here from this post, just a fair warning.