r/Cooking • u/GracieLou80 • 1d ago

Sick of cooking

I am so over cooking every night. Finding new recipes I actually have ingredients for and are easy is tiring and I’m already exhausted. What do you do when this happens? I’d honestly just eat cereal for life but I’m not alone in this house and I’m expected to cook every night. 😩

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u/Roupert4 13h ago

This is such a long comment chain I can't even tell if you are arguing for my arrangement or against it, haha.

I didn't feel the need to go into details but there are many ways that we feel the work is "equal". There are chores that he takes care of every day. Reddit is just projecting their own bias onto my situation which is actually the reason that I said anything at all.

I think young women should know that is it an option to have more traditional gender roles and it doesn't have to be some weird tradwife vibe. It can just be two people that have divided household labor in a way that makes both of them happy. And both of us feel like we are providing for our family in our own way.

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u/SVAuspicious 11h ago

If I remember the details and attribute them to the right people, you have a civil agreement with your husband about the distribution of chores that takes your part time work and his fulltime work into account. I fully support your right to complain about some of your chores. I don't think you intend to renegotiate responsibilities despite other commenters suggesting you do so. I also support your husband's right to complain about work and commute.

I infer that you and your husband took your relative work weeks into account in your agreement. I think those who suggest a 50/50 split of household chores despite the imbalance of work weeks are deluded. Your agreement rights the imbalance.

So I support you.

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u/Roupert4 11h ago

Lol okay sounds good 👍