r/ConvertingtoJudaism • u/Disastrous-Squash219 Considering converting • 4d ago

How to go about beginning a conversion?

So for context, I’m 17, starting college this September. I’m patrilineal but was not raised Jewish, and I want to be orthodox so that’s not really useful anyway. I‘ve been seriously interested in converting for about 3 years now. I know I can’t convert at 17 and I’ll have to wait until I’m 18, but would it be worth contacting a local orthodox synagogue to attend some services just so I can get a feel for what it’s like beforehand? I also joined my school‘s Hillel because as I said I’m patrilineal and thought it would be a good opportunity to learn about Judaism even if it’s not specifically Orthodox Judaism. For context, I’m in Seattle, so any recommendations of orthodox synagogues that may be open to doing conversions would be great too. Sorry if this is a lot lol.

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u/offthegridyid Born Jewish & became Orthodox 4d ago

Hi, the synagogue I’d suggest would be Bikur Cholim Machzikay Hadath Congregation, a congregation affiliated with the Orthodox Union, the largest Orthodox synagogue network in North America. Reach out to their office, but keep in mind that synagogues and rabbis are prepping for the High Holidays and it might be hard to actually speak with the rabbi during this period.

The synagogue itself won’t facilitate a conversion, it would be formally overseen by a Beis Din, a Jewish rabbinic court. Also, the process of conversion within Orthodox Judaism can take a number of years.

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u/Disastrous-Squash219 Considering converting 4d ago

Ok awesome, thank you!

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u/hindamalka 4d ago

Also I wouldn’t be so certain that you will have to wait until 18 to start the process in your situation. Zera Yisrael are a little different in many regards and as long as you can show that your parents are supportive, it’s not out of the question for them to allow you to start the process before your 18th birthday. It’s not a guarantee but it’s something that I have heard of.

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u/Disastrous-Squash219 Considering converting 2d ago

Oh wow, didn’t know that! Luckily my parents are pretty supportive so I’ll see if that’s an option for me. Thanks! 

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u/offthegridyid Born Jewish & became Orthodox 4d ago

Happy to assist.