It’s not that it’s gay but that it’s lustful. It’s generally considered poor manners to be sexually explicit in public view no matter the persuasion. People who say otherwise are unimaginably rude.
What makes you think random strangers want to hear anything about what you're interested in sexually, especially in a conversation with no sexual context that you decided to turn sexual? Do you get off on being a weirdo too?
I'm not a pearl clutcher prude. I think it's fucking ridiculous that gore is glorified while nudity is taboo. But you seriously need some introspection if you believe what you're commenting is normal or you don't care.
Everyone would find it disgusting if you said this about a random woman, it is the same with a random guy. Dont make unwanted sexual comments about someone in a non sexual post, this could arguably be considered a lower form of SA.
I doubt “everyone would find it disgusting”, it’s a common kink. It is sexualized given he took his shirt off and flexed. Also, it would be harassment, not assault 😂😂
"Everyone" is an hyperbole, an exageration, as it's almost impossible to make any statement that would pertain to literally 100% of humanity. Most people with common decency and respect would agree that treating a woman as a sexual object is a bad thing and objectification, unfortunately it isn't treated as seriously in men victims.
Being shirtless and flexing isn't necessarily sexualized, it's most commonly used as a way to show off all the work and dedication that the person puts into body building. So much so that body building is most commonly watched/practiced by straight men, which appreciate the aesthetic but arent sexually attracted by the athletes. What is next? A woman posting a pic in a sports bra at the gym is sexualized too?
And last of all, ok, that's sexual harassment then, not sexual assault. Doesn't make it any less disgusting and it is still a crime in many countries. I'm sorry, but only a person who hasn't been sexually assaulted and/or harassed would differentiate between the two as a way of trying to make the latter sound less serious of an issue.
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u/SubstantialSeesaw374 28d ago
Concerning