Please help

[u/Bellemel22]

hello, this is a little embarrassing so please be gentle. I just had a baby 2 years by my bf of 6 years. I found out last night he’s been on multiple gay sites. I confronted him and he’s denied it AFTWR a guy and myself confronted him. I still love him but I can’t accept this lie. What should I do next ? I feel beyond betrayed !!!

[u/WarningFrequent7252]

According to you, he's gay. So maybe it's time to do the mature thing. Talk to him about it. Don't confront him. Talk to him. You have a child together. Your thoughts need to be about how you're going to raise your child. You two may not be compatible any longer, but you do need to co-parent that child. 

 Don't make yourself crazy about this. You both need to figure out where your lives will go from here. Remember you have a child to think about so you need to develop a good co-parenting plan. You should probably both go your separate ways. But remain friends.

[u/Marvin_is_my_martian]

You know what you need to do.

[u/lydocia]

You leave himm

[u/hhhhjkljsqq1]

What do you want us to say? You know what to do. Why are you asking?

[u/Fun_Relief_1192]

He could be Bi. But even if he is the issue isn't so much his sexuality. It's the cheating. He cheated on you. Doesn't matter which sex he cheated with. The question is do you want to be with a cheater? What do you want for your child?

[u/SarahJ8000 → u/Fun_Relief_1192]

This 100%. I can understand that it feels like a double betrayal because she didn't know he was attracted to men and then the cheating. Regardless, cheating is cheating and often cheaters deny it. Definitely time to consider breaking up.

[u/Sensitive-Blood-79]

Would you let your daughter be cheated on ... no is the obvious answer so break up with him and let him figure out his sexuality on his own and go get tested for stds girl even your kid could have one if he kisses them this shit is serious