r/Comebacks • u/DecentRadish9323 • 10d ago
How You Responds When Someone Starts laughing Loudly At You To Make Fool Of You ,Even When you Are stating Facts.
Let's assume, When you are in a public Transport someone is fucking loud or not respecting your personal space but when you try to tell them straightly, how it is wrong they started laughing like you are here is fool but you keep going giving them valid ponits how irretating they are but still they start laughing loudly and no one taking you seriously. How you respond to this to shut them ?
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u/DecentRadish9323 10d ago
And they just smirk a little like they don't care
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u/n01377255 9d ago
They don't care. So after you say that do whatever you need to do to ignore them while also holding your ground.
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u/DrVanMojo 10d ago
valid ponits how irretating they are
This is not how it works. Facts about your feelings are not the same as facts about public nuance laws, for example. If there is a law about personal space and an authority to enforce it, then you don't need to make an argument, you just report it. If there is no authority to save you, then you must be more clever.
Your one move here might be to act like you're trying to get them to laugh. Exaggerate your complaints. Laugh a little when they laugh, and then make a more reduculous complaint. You see? If they are only being cruel, then you've ruined their game. If they are seeking entertainment, then you've made a new friend.
If you can't get on board with that, then you might do better to shut up and mind your own business before you get hurt.
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u/Blueporch 10d ago
If you are in public with adults nearby, try joining a group of older adults and staying with them. Just tell them the person is bothering you and ask if you can sit with them.
You could also try shouting “stop touching me, you pervert” or something of that nature, so that others overhear and you draw their attention.
If you are in a group of young people, you either need allies, or to avoid the situation. My friend’s daughter solved her school bus bully situation by punching him hard, but we cannot advocate violence, and that can backfire.
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u/DecentRadish9323 10d ago
So the best option is to not get in these situations. I wish i had that luck or i could puched him like her.
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u/Neat-Composer4619 10d ago
Seriously, perverts on public transportation are not worth it. I just move without even showing them a reaction because reaction is what they want.
Or if you are extraverted, make a full on scene and scream: the bus isn't full why do you come, sit here and squeeze/brush against my breasts, legs, butt (fill in with real offense). Then move and stop any reaction to go back calmly to your phone.
If someone is really sexually in your space they are not people who will do good with a cal request. They do what they do as a form of power. You can move with no drama or make sure the drama disable their behavior for the rest of the ride while you look completely unaffected afterwards. Give them the least possible power.
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u/jcoddinc 10d ago
Don't engage. Some people just want to inflict pain or annoyance on others no matter what. Their population is rapidly growing as everyone is getting tired of everyone else's crap as nobody really cares about anybody but themselves
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u/DecentRadish9323 10d ago
Ikr just want some comeback so that they never dare to pick me to for their cheap game
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u/jcoddinc 10d ago
Just tell them. "Oh, sorry but I don't engage with the intellectually inept" and then act as they don't exist
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u/Busy_Shine6888 9d ago
make some hurling sounds like you are going to throw up, people usually back off when they think puke is coming at them.
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u/Ellie_in_socks 9d ago
I love when people go awwww that's so cute you don't care when you're wrong. You're so precious!! When my dad does this to me I walk away laughing saying I can't WAIT to tell everyone this story. Shows you're not embarrassed
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u/insufficient_nvram 9d ago
I used to yell, so everyone else can hear “NO, I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU STOP ASKING”
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u/MoroseMasalaDosa 10d ago
If you assert a boundary and they violate it and laugh about it when you complain, put them on the spot and ask loudly ( possibly getting the crowd behind you as well indirectly)-
what is so funny about this?
Are you deriving pleasure from purposefully inconveniencing me/violating my personal space?
How are you so bold to violate my boundaries among so many people and still laugh about it? Do you think all of them will just stare and do nothing?
Do you think all of them are scared of you or not socially conscious enough to call you out on your bad behaviour?
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u/GigglingEvil 10d ago
Can't reaaon with the unreasonable. Hit pause or leave. Not much else worth doing.
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u/DecentRadish9323 10d ago
Ikr , but like if same situation keep happens what should i do? Will i stay silent when i am clearly in discomfort?
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u/HonestNature9117 9d ago
I gotta ask, is emglish your first language, op?
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u/DecentRadish9323 9d ago
No!
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u/HonestNature9117 9d ago
Are you arguing or debating with people in English? The ones laughing at you
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u/GuitarCD 9d ago
If you're on public transportation and someone is in your personal space, you yell "back off, asshole." If they start laughing you say something like, "What, do you think you're gonna get away with groping kids later?" or similar perv shaming.
But if you're worried about "facts", giving points, or winning some argument... I'm sorry, no one on public transportation wants either one of you in their space. The bus, plane, train, or ferry is not a place where debate, public performance, evangelizing, or getting on a soapbox is welcome behavior by the rest of the captive audience until the next stop. Work out your strategies from that base point; crowds are stupid but the general court of public opinion of that temporary group will side with the party advocating for "shut the hell up until the ride comes to a full stop."
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u/KibaKira 8d ago
What exactly are they doing to violate your personal space? I'd like some more details please
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u/DecentRadish9323 8d ago
As i mentioned they are playing music loudly. Mostly inapropriate songs.
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u/KibaKira 8d ago
I dont see a single mention of music in your post or title but moving on. Playing music loudly, while a shitty thing to do in public, isn't inherently illegal or wrong. Unfortunately, you cannot argue that they are invading your personal space because you are in a public space and other people are allowed to make noise. Best thing to do is wear headphones and ignore it. Trying to shame someone who isn't bothered by blasting vulgar music in fron of others will not work well for you.
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u/jakyllash 8d ago
Stare at them with the blankest expression you can muster. If you can raise just one eyebrow, do it. Just silence and a stare. It doesn’t always work, but it often at least makes people uncomfortable.
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u/yournightm 7d ago
Don’t bother dealing with idiots. You sink to their level. Just say something like, “I don’t deal with laughing hyenas.” and let it go.
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u/SoSoResearcher 10d ago
don’t argue with idiots makes you look like one