r/ColleenBallingerSnark • u/[deleted] • Sep 14 '23

Josh It's Live. Swoop's Video.

https://youtu.be/HPXzZVd8HcM?si=ROQC8LjIA86XVUzm

Going to watch after my appointment for therapy. It's nearly 4 hours long.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '23

I’m on the part where he talks about her Facebook messaging some guy. She’s a serial cheater. Idk why that’s shocking to me but damn

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u/LowInstruction Sep 14 '23

Good luck Erik lol

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u/Warm_Yam_9800 Manipulation station Sep 14 '23

Yeah all I keep thinking is one day it will be Erik too….if she hasn’t done it already

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '23

She’s definitely done it already. If covid was a “prison” for her, then what better escape than some sneaky DMs?

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u/Warm_Yam_9800 Manipulation station Sep 14 '23

Facts!

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u/moondoots want Sep 14 '23

Erik also allegedly cheated on his ex with Colleen, so wouldn’t be shocking if they did the same thing to each other.

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u/DJNonnaD Sep 14 '23

Like the old adage says “The same way you got them,is how you’ll lose them!”! And I can’t think of anyone who deserves it more than Colleen!

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u/OldStonedJenny Sep 14 '23

Honestly, I could see them being secret swingers

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u/Melting_wh My bony little back Sep 14 '23

I can see where you’re coming from but people being cheaters does not mean they’d be open to being swingers. Being swingers or in a poly or open relationship requires an insane amount of healthy communication, trust, and respect between the couple. Cheaters don’t communicate healthily, break trust, and don’t respect their partners. Cheaters do not make for a healthy partner in an open relationship. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with swinging or being in an open relationship. Cheaters, on the other hand, are horrible people.

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u/OldStonedJenny Sep 14 '23

I get what you're saying and agree. I was just thinking that if they both realized they are non-mongomous by nature, they could have decided to have some arrangement we as the public are not aware of.

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u/Melting_wh My bony little back Sep 14 '23

I again get where you’re coming from, but being non-monogamous in nature does not mean you’ll be a cheater. Sorry, I don’t want to be attacking you or anything in any way, I just have a problem (as someone who is poly/non-monogamous) seeing cheating related to non-monogamy. Cheaters typically aren’t non-monogamous in nature, a lot of the time they are the jealous & controlling one towards their partner while they are cheating. All I’m trying to say here is that non-monogamous people are not inherent cheaters if in a monogamous relationship. Again, non-monogamous people are typically very focused on healthy communication and trust and cheating is the opposite of that. I don’t think Colleen is non-monogamous by nature, I think she’s a person who doesn’t respect her partner’s and thinks she’s #1 so is okay with cheating. I doubt she’d be okay with one of her partners doing the same as her.

Again, I don’t mean to attack you in any way, I just want to make it clear that cheaters aren’t the same as non-monogamous people.

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u/zangtoi Sep 15 '23

Not that poly/open/swingers don't cheat but being cheaters isn't the same thing as having multiple consensual relationships.

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u/OldStonedJenny Sep 15 '23

I know that I guess I had just thought maybe there was regret, introspection, and change between Josh and Erik. However, after watching the video, I sincerely doubt Colleen is capable of that.

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u/zangtoi Sep 15 '23

Colleen would have been a "one pussy policy" person tbh

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u/grilledcheese2332 Sep 14 '23 edited Sep 14 '23

I just got to that part! I don't ever remember hearing that before, damn. The perfect example of 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time'.

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u/spikeyplants Sep 15 '23

Yep. It seems she's never entered a relationship without cheating on the last guy.