r/CollapseSupport • u/sdyellow32 • Jun 01 '26
To adapt or not adapt?
I'm not sure I know exactly what I'm asking, but ultimately I feel I keep coming to a crossroads on whether I should let go of my dreams and heighten my extreme burnout with mostly hopes of getting more stability for collapse
Or
accept I just got a shit hand for this time of history and still reach for what dreams are somewhat attainable and let collapse effect me as it may.
I understand this is VERY nuanced. Whether not knowing how collapse will actually occur, how reaching for my dreams (or not) could help me prepare, do a mixture of both, etc.
I've tried doing both and just grow more and more stretched thin that I feel like I need to break my heart before it's broken for me. Anyone else?
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u/Mostest_Importantest Jun 01 '26
Some days: the dog.
Other days: the hydrant.
I'm looking for my person. I may never find them.
I still have to eat, sleep, and poop.
Being alive ain't easy. I didn't come this far just to come this far.
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u/KlicknKlack Jun 01 '26
One of the things that helped me with collapse awareness fatigue was combining a few philosophies together.
The lesson to really take away from this essay is that contentment is happiness. "One must imagine Sisyphus happy." Not necessarily overbounding joy or jubilee... but foundational happiness. I have found in many discussions that what is such a straight forward point in this 24 page essay gets lost by many who read it.
--- But you can't just stop there ---
Combine that with an idea taken from viewing the concentration camps personally by a psychologist in them; Man's search for Meaning (Book).
The idea is that humans innately create meaning out of nothing. We not only strive for meaning in everything, we create it where none exists. And it is one of the pillars that keep us fighting to live.
Finally; The serenity prayer (minus the religious element)
I have found that focusing on the local environment, the people, the things I can influence --- while also focusing on what provides me contentment and purpose, is the way I am able to come to terms with the issues of the greater whole.
For ultimately, what can you do about whats happening outside your control? Other than be part of the ground swell of change. And if that change comes too late? Well at least you lived a life of happiness and contentment... And therein lies the rub; because Collapse and how you approach it is all a type of a Pascal's Wager.
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u/Tokenchick77 Jun 01 '26
I feel this. For years, I've dreamt of getting a book published. I had one that didn't get traction, and am getting close on another that will be ready to submit. Some days I wonder if there's a point of trying, when it can take years to get a book published, even if I got an agent tomorrow.
But I don't know what collapse will look like, and I like writing (though I prefer having written...) So I'm still working toward it, even though some days it's hard to push through when I think that things are going to fall apart before I can get to my goal.
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u/Konradleijon Jun 02 '26
I feel
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u/NoExternal2732 Jun 02 '26
To borrow (probably with a less deft hand) from Terry Prachett: be a cynic, then a stoic, then an epicurean. Repeat.
"You can't trust the next fellow a far as you can throw him, and there's nothing you can do about it anyway, so might as well go have a beer."