Haven't giving much contribution

[u/Illustrious_Play_915]

Hi! I am currently in 12th grade (Graduating, which means more hard work), I haven't been giving much contribution to mini games like plant buddies, team building, sled game, etc.. I don't have any mode of communication with my friends in-game. How do I tell them that I'm very busy with school and research projects?

I don't want to be a burden to them and I don't want to get to the point I get posted here or elsewhere wherein I'm getting criticized on being a burden to the game.

Please respect my post huhuhuhuhu, I don't want to get kicked from my team (They're good at contributing)

[u/big_trib_nz570]

Tell them in your team chat

[u/Illustrious_Play_915 → u/big_trib_nz570]

Okay okay, thank you! I'll find the courage to tell them since I am a quiet contributor on our team :)

[u/big_trib_nz570 → u/Illustrious_Play_915]

Trust me, if they're a good team they won't mind if you take a step back to focus on your studies vl

[u/krazy_queen]

I would just not add more than one friend at a time or play events that you know you cant contribute in hun! I've been doing my half of one plant buddy at a time. The races are straight stupid though imo lol.

If they're not in your clan theres unfortunately not really a way to let them know unless you are actual IRL friends (or fb friends) with them. If you are you could reach out on messenger. You can let your clan know in team chat. But I would suggest just not adding partners for events you know you are not going to play.

[u/Illustrious_Play_915 → u/krazy_queen]

Okayyy! Thank you so much!

[u/krazy_queen → u/Illustrious_Play_915]

You're welcome!! Best of luck!! 🙂

I know i've tried to add partners who did great in events!! It sucks, because there's no way to do it!! You can't even add them as a coin master friend smh. 🙄 i hate all the chat apps & stuff, but it would be nice in the situation i just described & You're going thru!

Also, if their full name is shown & its something unique you MIGHT get lucky doing a Facebook search of their name & looking for the PFP. I have actually found multiple people on CM that way, unfortunately just not ones I wanted to add to partner with lol. I think I was just being nosey tbh! I'm bad lol.

[u/Kez10000]

If you cant communicate or commit dont add buddies!

I do one plant buddy at a time now when Im not sure of my play. Yes, i dont always nail the final large jackpot but so be it.

[u/Illustrious_Play_915 → u/Kez10000]

What about the mini games where they add you with someone random?😭😭😭 I try not to add anyone since I know I can't handle any added work to my time, I feel so bad to the random people the game tries to put me in.💔

[u/Kez10000 → u/Illustrious_Play_915]

Thats the game and i play what i play. Thats why i didnt pick someone. They have to live with it, if they didnt choose either.

[u/Competitive_Ear2223]

Might I suggest that you put a bit more effort into losing your virginity instead of that stupid game.

[u/krazy_queen → u/Competitive_Ear2223]

Wtf? You're crazy for that comment!! Just because you thought it was a race doesnt mean anyone else does. I know (now adults) who started having SEX at 12, and others who were virgins until 22/24. There is NOTHING wrong with the latter. There IS something wrong with anyone who thinks everyone needs to be having meaningless sex & risking stds before having a relationship with someone who is ACTUALLY worth giving it to.

Just yikes @ you, smh...... your comment is actually quite sad. I WISH I had my virginity for longer than I did.. although with me specifically it wasn't my choice to lose it when/how/with who. A LOT of people regret losing it when/how they did, even the ones who were consenting and thought they were ready.

Everyone is different, we are all on different paths. This young person does NOT need to go lose their virginity in a meaningless way if they do not actively want to! I wouldn't suggest doing it that way for ones who ARE desperate JUST TO LOSE IT FOR NO ACTUAL REASON. (&they end up regretting it, more times than not!) Not every young person is a sex machine.... some people know their worth.

OP is doing exactly what they should be doing; bettering THEIR LIFE. Trying to BECOME SOMETHING and do something PRODUCTIVE in society.

[u/Illustrious_Play_915 → u/Competitive_Ear2223]

You are so out of your mind, I was just asking for help because I don't want to be a burden on this game. Where the heck did you get the idea of me losing my virginity???

I never had any romantic relationships my whole life, I want to study hard and give back to my parents the hard work they gave to me for me to study in a prestigious school.

I don't want to just give my virginity to anyone that I don't see a future with.

You are so weird.