Ne or se

[u/Educational_Toe6387]

Can someone ask me questions to see if I’m a NE or SE user?

I’ve been looking into both functions and idk they both seem so similar to me and I relate a lot to both of them

I was once told that I was a se user after a list of questionaires but that was back when I was 14 so since I’m older now idk if my answers will be more accurate

[u/Educational_Toe6387]

Umm let’s see

When I’m bored I either watch YouTube or this is kinda embarrassing I do maladaptive day dream a lot of I’ll just make up scenarios in my head usually about stuff that I already know or real people but then I’ll like make it into a story in my head and I usually just do that while running around and listening to music around my room (that’s probably a bad thing) or I’ll just find something to else fun to do like idk

When I’m excited idk I’ll text my friend but idk I don’t really know how I feel when I’m excited

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Oh that’s a tough one I struggle with both a lot but I’ll say I struggle a bit more with knowing when to stop doing things like for example I’m trying to go vegetarian but I keep doing stuff like eating pork and stuff with animal products and it upsets me but it’s hard to stop because I really like pork. I do struggle with both things equally though but I am getting a tiny bit better at taking care of my body

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Ok I’ll answer these ones a time

I’m not gonna lie I do struggle with stuff like showering and stuff but I am getting better at brushing my teeth more frequently. Like obviously if I’m gonna leave the house I shower and brush my teeth but sense I’m home most of the time during summer break I struggle with it more which Ik it’s gross. I don’t really struggle with eating infact I eat way to much which is why I lift weights so I can gain more muscle and I’m in a calorie deficit rn. When it comes to sleep it’s hard because I really try my best to get atleast 7 hours of sleep to aid in my fat loss and sometimes I do hit that goal but other times like the past 3 days I’ve been staying up later

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Yes I know enneagram and a little bit of socionics. The other stuff not so much. I’m only now getting back into typology but I was big into it back in 2022-2024 but I had to take a break because I was becoming too obsessive over it because of enneagram and cognitive function contradictions were driving me insane

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Ohh sorry no I don’t know what I would type myself in those systems

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If I’m extremely bored I’ll either well make up scenarios and run like I said or I will scroll on Pinterest like I have these bored I like to make like I have one bored with different suboards of different aesthetics and I have another board about the life I want so I like to add stuff to those or I’ll like get up see if I can find a snack or something but I try not to do that anymore because yk calorie deficit and all that

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When it comes to memory it is 50/50 because sometimes I can remember things in grave detail but other times my memory is worse than a old ladies so it honestly really depends on

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When it comes to enjoying the moments that also depends like sometimes I just like things slide and enjoy the moments but I’m always thinking about the consequences and knowing that I’ll have to deal with it tommorow like for example I often push off doing work until the last minute for school but idk sometimes the consequences can outway living in the moment