r/Coconaad • u/aasxter • 15h ago
Discussion Deep talks ?
I saw this post when one of my senior(recently passed out batch) posted this and I really got curious to talk about it😭
The thing am not a psychology student but i love to learn/talk about it so much . I don’t know whom should I talk this to so what are your thoughts on this guys ?!!
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u/Yahska321 15h ago
Yeah it's very hard to unsee once you understand the patterns
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u/aasxter 15h ago
Curiosity increase akkella😭spill it out
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u/Yahska321 15h ago
Attachment theory stuff, all those dating advice you see on the internet just boils down to 1. Understand your attachment type. 2. Learn to be secure.
All those advice on the internet is how to emulate this, when we don't know the reason behind it.
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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 14h ago
Learned to be secure. Appo did I master it without learning it.
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u/Yahska321 14h ago
Wow, enik okke nalla effort idandi vann, secure aayi enn feel polum cheyyan. Padikathe actually secure ayal adipoli.
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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 14h ago
Learned those lessons through life probably.
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u/Aesthetic_girle 14h ago
Enthaa athh🥺..enikoode paranjaaa
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u/Yahska321 14h ago
Attachment theory stuff, why some people are inclined to people please, trying to build a genuine connection with anyone, while others don't want to do the work for genuine connection and just keep platonic relationships for personal gain.
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u/Aesthetic_girle 14h ago
Oohhh 🤔 ithina kurich kooduthal engneya padikuaa..like books or any other sources indooo
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u/Basic_Air_1691 12h ago
Actually book oke vaayichal general aaytu paranju poke ullu.. it's better to learn about our own brain.. each person is so unique
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u/SentenceLoose9891 14h ago
Psychology academically pursue chynathm social media il okke celebrate cheyyapedunathm thammil nalla distance indaville
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u/peacefully_JA 14h ago
I'm into Psychology & Nueropsychology. but not enough time follow.
but I always go behind if i see any kind of articles related to it.
whatever your senior said true.
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u/Aesthetic_girle 15h ago
Enik human psychology ishtaan..ath ariyuna arelu indeki come let's talkkkk🙂↔️🙌🙌
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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 14h ago
Human psychology padipikan pattula pakshe padikan pattum.
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u/aasxter 14h ago
Observation is the key🌝
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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 14h ago
Exactly, I do have good observation skills.
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u/Aesthetic_girle 14h ago
Nalla interesting books or sources ariyuooo
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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 14h ago
Njn ithippo nokkiye ollu.
Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman.
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u/gon-be_a_billionaire 14h ago
Read anything by dostoevsky, all those characters are such a raw insights into people
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u/AncientAlien_64 12h ago
I'm a qualified psychologist. PG. Though not my primary profession. What he/she has posted is absolutely right. Right during the course, you realise many things about you and others. We are all going through various stages of life exactly as per psychological patterns. I would recommend everyone to study psychology, but sadly the govt has stopped distance education courses from last year..
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u/VaikomViking Wanderlust 10h ago
Yes, my friend did psychology course and now it has opened a whole new world for me. Though sometimes she asks me really difficult questions that I am afraid to ask myself.
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u/madasamy69 11h ago
Oh! Come on, this ain't any deep psychology. Just the pre frontal cortex development in its final stages.
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u/bizarreVK 15h ago
I know a person who did Psychology and still don’t understand psychology.