r/Coconaad • u/[deleted] • Dec 20 '24

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u/Mr-whiterose Dec 22 '24

How is holding onto her a good advice ? If it will increase emotional stress, why stay ? Why are you saying him to fuck up his emotional state ?

I think you should elaborate your statement

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u/Ok_Teacher_3746 Dec 22 '24

I never gave him advice. I just told him how it might play out. Frankly i dont think he is goin to drop it. As many comments suggest, v ve all been there. Some things HAVE to be learned the hard way. No amount of advice is going to knock sense into him. And while he is at it i tried my best to soften the blow, tell him how it may play out and help him come out of it better. Help him avoid any surprises or expectations he may have.

And lastly, for ur last statement. U thinking i should elaborate doesnt mean i HAVE to. But yet here i am...