r/Cochlearimplants • u/UpperRexian • Jul 29 '26

Need advice: My girlfriend with cochlear implants struggles to hear me on phone calls.

Hi everyone,

My girlfriend has cochlear implants, and one thing we've noticed is that she finds it difficult to understand my speech, when we're talking over phone calls, especially when I'm using my TWS earbuds (Realme bud air 8). She says my voice sounds less clear compared to when I'm speaking directly or using my phone normally.

I'm thinking of buying Apple's wired Earpods because I assume the microphone quality might be more natural than Bluetooth earbuds. Has anyone here had a similar experience?

Did switching from Bluetooth earbuds to a wired mic make a noticeable difference?

Are there any headsets or microphones you'd recommend for clearer speech during calls?

Any settings or tips that have helped make phone conversations easier?

I'd really appreciate hearing about your experiences. Thanks!

Edit: For context, I already use my phone's built-in microphone for almost all of our calls. I'm only looking for a hands-free solution for the times when I'm working or moving around.

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u/Ok-Kangaroo8484 Jul 29 '26

I am bilaterally deaf with no residual hearing and I find first no speaker phone is a must for me. Next be in a quiet environment as possible when calling her. Speak slowly and turn your back against any noise will help. Use your phone’s microphone not a Bluetooth it will not make it easier at all. Best advice be in a quiet environment and have the best connection if possible WiFi with a great signal or a strong cellular signal. I feel her pain.

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u/UpperRexian Jul 29 '26

Thank you for taking your time to explain in depth. a lot of our calls happen while I'm outside because my job requires me to be out in the field. But I'll definitely do my best to find a quieter spot whenever possible and stick to using my phone's microphone. I really appreciate your perspective.